Poor parents that they can't enforce a fantasy personality on a living being.
Honestly it feels worse than death to know that your identity is nonexistent for the outside world and you only exist as a wishfulfillment for ypur parents. And absolutely nothing more.
Like it's like the only reason in your life is to destroy your own soul and replace it with a fake fantasy persona.
Sorry but it's horrible and I find parents are absolutely accountable.
Murdering a living body is wrong but so should be murdering the psyche and identity of a human.
I wonder how hard a child coming out as transgender would be to accept as a pareng uneducated on the matter and raised in a society where man is man and woman is woman. I find it hard to completely blame the parents for not accepting something they both don't understand and are likely truly unaware of.
Of course I believe the overriding maternal/paternal instincts should kick in and make them support their child but I think we cannot hold them fully accountable for something society has drilled in to them.