Totally walloped with the idiot stick
Great post. Your first paragraph sums up my reactions pretty much perfectly. Fitz not recognising what his daughter was (I mean, the dream diary, come on!) and the Fools visions while holding her, and not putting it together, it was ridiculous. And Fitz not defending himself about his family wanting to take Bee away. And being so unpleasant about the Fool being a part of his daughter, that was stupid and odd and annoying. Also the reasons for not fully healing the Fool seemed a bit forced.
I agree that the Fool isnt as idiotic as Fitz, but I thought the communication between them both on important things was really bad, and it wasnt just Fitz, the Fool wasnt talking either (although this wasnt un-Fool-like, I suppose, but he might have learned by now!) which led to unnecessary bloat in the journey preparation. Also, I thought the Fools character changed in ways I wasnt sure about; partly it was the personal revenge thing, although possibly I was either misreading, or Im misremembering. Its probably well explained by what hes been through and his lack of emotional balance, as you said.
Regarding the power imbalance between the dragons and the elderlings, I think I was interested that it showed the difficulties of regenerating a destroyed culture, that things arent going to be balanced, that they dont have the traditions passed down, they dont know how they need to behave and its not going to work (although Im not sure its been conclusively established the dragons and elderings of old had an equal relationship either? I dont recall). If its going to work itll need to take a new path, which as you pointed out, brings Fitz and the Skill and new applications into it which is very interesting!
How its all coming together is very exciting
Also I love your speculation about a Skill coterie being able to affect a dragon. Gives me a sense of foreboding! I dont recall the ending in detail (other than I thought it was amazing) but yeah, pretty sure I thought it was Fitz who was dragon-touched.
And theres still the Clerres/ White Prophet/ Servants storyline, I dont know how all this is going to fit in one last book! Which isnt out until May 2017 now D: well at least that means theres plenty of time for an entire series spanning re-read, which youre making me want to start immediately!