Damn you people always get offended over the stupidest shit.
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I honestly think a lot of the outrage you see on places like tumblrinaction is sarcastic. At least I hope it is. I consider myself very liberal, feminist, and PC. I actually have PTSD, and have talked in the past about the usefulness of trigger warnings on things like rape, torture, and extreme violence. But not going to stop using the word stupid or dumb to describe things, and I'm not going to put a trigger warning when I talk about side walks.
tbqh, 'dumb' was originally used to describe people who are unable to speak. Over time, it also came to mean lacking intelligence, beginning in Germany I think, so there is a legitimate reason people think it has an ableist connotation: it conflates ability to speak with lack of intelligence when this is not the case.
It's sad to me that basically the only thing people see of ableism when they go on sites like tumblr is a list of words. Ableism is so much more than that. But it also saddens me when I see people, even in this thread, dismiss those ableist connotations. Ultimately, this isn't about these hard lines of a word being totally bad or good, should or shouldn't, it's about having a dialogue about how these systems of oppression are rooted in our society, be it through our language, government, architecture, education, violence, anything really. I really like what AWP had to say about it:
Our goal with the Ableist Word Profile is to explore language, and the way in which language usage can subconsciously reinforce ableism. Indeed, the very structure of the English language reflects social attitudes about disability, and English language users are, therefore, steeped in these attitudes. We hope that all our readers can agree that the reason ableist language is so strong is because it is rooted in ideas about disability, and the value of people with disabilities, and prevailing conceptualization of disability.
While a lot of these posts are intended to get people thinking about word usage, they are not intended to dictate the language that individuals use. Only you can decide what language you use, but you should do so in full awareness of the impact that your language has. Ultimately, the person you need to be accountable to is yourself, not us.
(The rest of this post isn't at all directed at you Fiction, just bigger trends that are on topic <3)
And I think that's in step with what these articles are talking about, these nuanced ideas and discussions being reduced two two-dimensional caricatures.
And it especially sucks because I've been on the other side, too, with extremism! There are great feminist/womanist bloggers who make amazing and unique points about gender, race, sexuality, identity, but will call people sexist or assume they're straight white men for bringing up disability. I even saw it a bit with GooberGate and autism, unfortunately. Like someone said earlier, you were either pro- or anti- but some people were flat out being jerks and it felt like, what could you do about it?
It's weird, because some people think I'm an extremist for talking about this stuff, and others think I'm an oppressive jerk trying to bring women down and I'm like??? I'm female??? Sometimes I feel so spent and done with this stuff because you have to talk about the popular stuff, you have to make feminism and social justice sexy and easy for everyone and you can't, and I just wanna eschew this whole thing.