Houston3000
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I need some good second date ideas. I have a long history of second dates that don't transition into third dates and I think it's because my second dates end up being boring.
For a first date I almost always like to meet at a bar and go get a nice desert somewhere. Dinner is usually in the agenda as well. I know that might seem typical and "boring" but it really works for me, at least as far as getting a second date is concerned. Now, if by the end of that first date I'm making out with the girl than the second date is usually a breeze... but not every girl kisses on the first date, especially a lot of the girls I end up liking the most. I went on this great date on Friday with a girl that I think seems really cool. We never got inot kissing but I definitely had a lot of fun and she seems to have as well - we continued chatting back and forth over the weekend and yesterday so far. I told her I was going to take her out again during the date and she seemed cool with it but now I want to officially extend the offer and I'm drawing a blank for something to do that won't totally blow my chances.
We jokingly talked about eating at Burger King for our next date but I honestly can't imagine doing that. I often-times suggest the movie theater but that seems like the boring typical idea
. It's lately been too uncomfortably cold to do anything outside and I hate to just go to a bar/restaurant for a second time in a row. Some girls I'm able to schedule the second date during a holiday (July 4th was fun last year) or around a particular interest (successfully took one girl to a comic book shop, one girl to museum) but I'm not sure I have anything in mind for this one that I'm sure she'd be a fan of. She's a huge board game geek (not talking Monopoly or Scrabble here) but I know nothing about those type of board games nor know a place to go to play them.
I don't know guys, any GENERAL tips? Especially if you're in NYC.
For a first date I almost always like to meet at a bar and go get a nice desert somewhere. Dinner is usually in the agenda as well. I know that might seem typical and "boring" but it really works for me, at least as far as getting a second date is concerned. Now, if by the end of that first date I'm making out with the girl than the second date is usually a breeze... but not every girl kisses on the first date, especially a lot of the girls I end up liking the most. I went on this great date on Friday with a girl that I think seems really cool. We never got inot kissing but I definitely had a lot of fun and she seems to have as well - we continued chatting back and forth over the weekend and yesterday so far. I told her I was going to take her out again during the date and she seemed cool with it but now I want to officially extend the offer and I'm drawing a blank for something to do that won't totally blow my chances.
We jokingly talked about eating at Burger King for our next date but I honestly can't imagine doing that. I often-times suggest the movie theater but that seems like the boring typical idea
especially if we're not going to make out for half the show
I don't know guys, any GENERAL tips? Especially if you're in NYC.