Offtopic : I'm the only one "OMFG" by the user named "videogames" is still a junior member in a forum with SO MANY videogame fans ?
edit: this is the last post on a page for most people .... i will totaly get ignored ... such a cool gingerbread graphic =/ [/edit]
As a side note to other people who may know more about this subject than I do: how is post-operative care for women who become men? Are penises constructed, and if so, how functional are they? What about testes?
There are basicaly 2 options :
1)Changing the oversized clitoris to a functional penis.
Most perfect option, but 90% of the time produces a small penis.... and we are talking about MEN choosing =P
2) Contructing a penis of the desireable size of the patient, but ....is inflatable by an external connection. Bonus point is that you can hold an erection for as long as you want and it will not show up when undesired.
People in this thread focusing too much on her life prior to becoming a woman. Most of them were more girly than I was growing up and yet people don't care that I was a total tomboy why?
I would love to know what would happen if SOMEHOW you became Hello Kitty's biggest fan and then dates someone ... and SUDDENLY he sees a pic of you at your puberty.... where you were probably using short hair and pants.
"OMFG YOU ARE TRANS AND LIED TO ME !!!" ?
except that is literally impossible.
If i am going to spend my time with someone and settle down, i intend to have kids. So i rather know it before hand
....it is an hipotetical question so that people focus ONLY on the "ycromossomophobia"
I fully accept that transgendered women are women. I still have to say that to me they're not women in the same sense that other women are women. Their womanhood necessarily involves various amounts of rebellion against their born "biological" gender, repression of "male" habits that they necessarily picked up in their former life, complex relationship with their outside persona, and I don't see how their feminity can be anything else than a combination of spontanous feminine instincts (that were probably met with different reactions during their former life as a "physical" male, and evolved accordingly) and some amount of deliberate imitation of what a woman is supposed to be. Basically it seems to me that their feminity is a "struggle". The complexity of the whole thing would be a huge turn off for me personnally, and dating a transgendered woman would force me to question my whole sexuality in so many ways that I get tired just thinking about it.
At the same time, the first part of the quoted would make me want you to read some books about gender theory, queer theory, psicology and antropoly.... but the bolded part would make me think that you would NEVER be able to date ANYONE ever again when you understand that EVERYONE is WAY more complex than you are thinking about only transwomen
Some people just aren't attracted to transwomen.
Wich means that there are PHYSICAL diferences on this.
Attraction is PHYSICAL.
Can you please enlighten me on what makes a transwomen diferent from other women ?
Keep in mind the case of people that allowed to start Hormone therapy in their tweens, ignoring EVERY kind of possible affect that testosterone might have on their bodies and the already said "not even a gynecologist would notice" surgical procedure.
Um, wouldn't their partners figure it out once they get a look at the genitals?
As already said in this thread (but i don't blame a people for not looking at such a large and rage inducing thread) and on this very post, it changes from surgeon to surgeon, but there are a good amount of surgeons able to do one that would fool a gynecologist.
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