just say what you want to say.
what are you getting at.
are you waiting for someone else to make the distinction you're trying to make? just say it.
your schtick is tiring. dancing around the subject, playing dumb to what you're actually saying. just let it out. the world is waiting to hear what has already been inferred.
Ok so you're annoyed and tired of my schtick.(?) And apparently I'm dancing. I thought I was being clear as day. I would feel taken advantage of if I was put into a situation that I probably would have avoided if I knew all of the information. And I think that withholding of information, while it may protect the feelings of someone, keeps someone else, who is supposed to be a willing partner, in the dark, which is wrong. And if the argument is, that it's just sex, and it wouldn't have mattered, then the argument is wrong.
And still even underneath all of that, I never said anything about me being a victim, and I said I wanted both parties to be safe and unhurt and emotionally intact. And that the best way for that is honesty.
But what am I "playing dumb to"? And what are you inferring other than I'm somehow some transphobic glad-hander here to deceive you because I say I can like a transgender person but not want to have sex with them?