OP Paraphrased said:
Hi, I hate cheaters and think they are the scum of the earth. I will go out of my way to out them to their S.O.s.
So, GAF tell me your stories about cheating.
It almost sounds like you would go all detective on people.
There are cases where I would rat out friends, but it would only be when it was a chronic case where the cheating was causing real damage to the relationship (on going affair). IMO, while a one time cheat is morally wrong, telling your S.O. about it is actually the wrong thing to do. It is selfish and hurtful to confess.
I did cheat on a girlfriend in high school, we were already drifting apart and instead of ending it, I moved on to new territories.
I've been married for almost 19 years and have never cheated. While I have had opportunities and urges, I couldn't live with myself breaking my wife's heart.
ScOULaris said:
So let me get this straight, you guys. If you were being cheated on, you WOULDN'T want someone to tell you? Even if it was your significant other's friend?
Nope, as long as it is a done deal in the past, I don't want to know.
To be clear, I am only referring to sex cheating. A full out affair would be a different story.