jimmypython
Member
Girlfriend has been extremely busy with work and school to the point her health has started to suffer due to the highs amounts of stress and I'm worried. We have barely talked over the last month for that reason. We were supposed to go on a date two saturdays ago but she cancelled on the last minute through a sms message. I understood and I just told her to rest and relax that weekend. She didn't messaged me a single word the whole week except on friday but only for 5 minutes until she abruptly went offline again since she still had homework to do. She said that her new work and school schedules are absolute hell, she literally doesn't know how is she gonna make it till the end of the year with that schedule. Practically has zero time off now and of course... that means she now has zero time to talk or go out with me... I love her and I feel worried knowing she's very stressed but I also don't want to bother her with tons of messages everyday just so she ignores me due to how tired/busy she is. I don't mind if she doesn't reply to my messages or we stay days without talking since both have lot's of stuff to do, especially her. The thing that worries me is that she hasn't feeling well physically and probably mentally and I want to help her, but how since she's online for literally 3 minutes until goes offline. Maybe I should give her some space and just wait till she feels like talking to me again ?? I feel useless..
leave her alone. I wouldn't assume what she might have been doing.
but
you can "be busy" yourself... i think it's a fair game.