My relationship has been dead for 3 months now and we're still waiting on the divorce to be finalized with the courts. I honestly know what I did wrong, I've self reflected on my problems for over a year now. I guess I'm worried about being single for too long since I've been in a relationship/bond for so many years.
Okay, this
maybe changes things.
However, I'm going to say this anyway: GET A FUCKING LAYWER (who can draft you a proper separation agreement that'll be incorporated into the divorce decree and/or safeguard your interests when your property's divided, let alone the
kids at issue).
Your self-described actions in the other thread are self-defeating and, quite frankly, stupid. You are not planning for the future. You are possibly inadvertently sabotaging any possible relationship going forward. You are giddy over the fact that you've finally escaped some entanglements when, quite honestly -- from a logistical and legal standpoint -- you haven't.
Bacon talked about the emotions of the situation, and I don't disagree with him; however, just yesterday you were talking about her maxing out new credit cards that could
maybe count as marital property.
Please. Do not date until someone reviews your situation and gives you the go-ahead. Please. If you've got that? Take it casual for a while. If you don't -- see my entire post here.