We take pride in our members, big, small, young, old, and so on.
There's a joke in here somewhere.
Jesus christ. I'm 6'3" as well but I'm 200 pounds. And I thought I was pretty lean. God damn.
I know Worst thing was 'bulking up' to 160 in two years, then getting mono and dropping down to 130 in two weeks. Thank god my metabolism is slowing down, though I'll always be small boned.
Well, this is how I see it. If you think you're a stud, then you imply you look better than average, right? In other words, you automatically claim that others are uglier than you. You can see how my train of thoughts continues from here and how I disapprove that.
I'm sure you have a way to not think like that (perhaps?), but that's just the way I personally see it. Since I think like that, I refuse to have that state of mind. I feel as if I ever call myself ugly or a stud, I would in some sort of way disrespect people, directly or indirectly.
Examples:
- If you point out the hottest person in a group, you kinda make the rest of the group realize they're uglier.
- Ever met someone who says they're hot in real life? Usually not a good character, usually delusional and also completely ignores that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Also, if someone says I'm ugly, I'll accept that that's their opinion. I won't tell myself: no, I know I'm a stud, you're wrong! Seems silly to me. I just be me, you know. I accept myself. I haven't gotten an insult in forever, which boosted my confidence so I could think this way. I would like everyone to have the option to accept themselves without being beaten down, directly or indirectly. I was always picked last and I remembering kissing dance circles from elementary school. Of course people didn't pick me, but later I heard from a friend that a girl picked me out of pity. Well, that shit hurts, even if meant well.
As Soultron said, there will always be people judging you instantly. And you're probably doing it yourself as well. For me it's how I (don't) react to that initial judgment. But are you really that occupied in day to day life? Like you feel ugly if people say Hugh Jackman is hot? Because that's kind of a waste of time dude. Better spend it in the gym on your way to becoming a stud
Edit: of course I'm dutch with my 6,3'.