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USA Today: A disturbing sex trend called 'stealthing' is on the rise
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perfectchaos007
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Oh shit was this one of the jokes Amy Schumer stole from Patrice? I remember a thread about that.
It is!!!
UnemployedVillain
Member
I'm pretty sure I read this on urban dictionary YEARS ago and it was called "The Houdini"
2Smashed4U
Banned
I mean, maybe, but I also would still not be with someone I would even passively not trust to cheat on me. At some point, it has to be there, you know?
Pretty much. I don't doubt some sickos have done this but losers bragging on a forum I don't believe their duck tales.
These guys live for trying to shock people.
Violence Jack
Member
Someone did this to my best friend during my college days. She called me crying and hysterical. She told the guy no, but he persisted and she agreed only if he would use a condom. He did, then took it off during it, and held her down while she yelled at him to get off.
When I found out about it, we reported him to the campus police and the best the school could do is expel him for rape and put it on his record. He's lucky I never tracked him down.
I don't understand why someone would brag about it though. If they ended up getting the girl pregnant, then bye bye paycheck for the next 18 years, or go to jail for not paying child support.
When I found out about it, we reported him to the campus police and the best the school could do is expel him for rape and put it on his record. He's lucky I never tracked him down.
I don't understand why someone would brag about it though. If they ended up getting the girl pregnant, then bye bye paycheck for the next 18 years, or go to jail for not paying child support.
cpp_is_king
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I guess because a condom breaking is something that actually does happen under completely consensual circumstances, so you'd basically be saying that a broken condom is now prosecutable.
It's just going to take a lot more to prosecute this if there is no hard evidence and the person claims that it broke unintentionally.
Sparkedglory
Member
I'll never understand why people wanna go without a condom. It's crazy to me. To risk pregnancy and the chance of an std? For what? Raw sex? Hell nah fam.
HawksWinStanley
Member
Those 'bug chasing' stories/forums were one of the first truly fucked up things I remember reading about on the internet. To this day I still think it's up there as the worst.
Mr_Antimatter
Member
Sounds like what you see in some porn and hentai vids/comics, without the realization that those aren't actually real.
Why on Earth woudl one want to open themselves to STD's or caring for an unwanted child?
Why on Earth woudl one want to open themselves to STD's or caring for an unwanted child?
Robot Pants
Member
Strange that the girls can't tell the difference....
they should notice it immediately
they should notice it immediately
NullPointer
Member
As long as its also rape if a woman lies about being on the pill, seems fair and fine to me.
It's literally rape.
If you do something the other person did not consent to, it's rape.
PackerinMN
Member
I've had this happen on accident... How do you prove intent?
I seriously doubt any of them are doing it for laughs even though some will laugh about it.
I'm positive that are doing it to reinforce how they made a sexual conquest.
soundahfekz
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These new dudes man, smh
no, it's rape.
And these 2 polarizing aspects is what will make this a challenge to sort out in a court of law.
Nealand Liquor
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Unless someone can swap places like a ninja AND found their penis twin, I have no idea how the woman wouldn't know when the "switch" happened.
QuantumSquid
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High five dude!
Or they end up in court and have to pay child support.
Hope it's worth the online high-fives ya' fuckin' morons.
ChamplooJones
Formerly Momotaro
Heard about this on TBGWT podcast and I couldn't believe it was real.
Women can't tell when the condom comes off? Because every female I've been with that I've asked the question of which kind of sex they preferred always told me that there's a clearly diff btw protected and unprotected sex and that they "feel" more...so I thoughr for sure the difference sorta jumped out at them. Guess I should've asked that too.
On the actual issue. It's despicable and dangerous to do this, and laws definitely need to account for it.
On the actual issue. It's despicable and dangerous to do this, and laws definitely need to account for it.
Hey a new sex trend from the media. We haven't had those in awhile. And it doesn't involve teenagers. This is a good one.
Zen_Arcade
Banned
That's called a "Milwaukee Hello".
Only cause teenagers don't use protection!
Seriously. People are so dumb.
TheExecutive
Member
Mind numbing. Hur hur I got herpes AND I knocked her up. How awesome am I?
No, there would a huge split in the GOP over this. Sure, a good number of them would be against protecting women. But you'd have a bigger section drawing a line here because these are UNMARRIED people doing this, and so they'd throw the book at them.
EDIT: Long story short, the traditional right would throw the book at them, while the alt-right would defend this practice.
adamantypants
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"TAMPA"
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Not excusing the behavior at all (it's fucking disgusting) but... as a woman I have no idea how this would happen and the man would get away with it in a normal situation. I would sure as shit notice if a condom came off during sex- it feels completely different from without. And I would sure as shit notice if he came without a condom as well. The only way I would think this would work would be by targeting impaired (drunk, on drugs, etc) women who might not notice because of their condition.
thelatestmodel
Junior, please.
I heard about "getting pozzed" years ago and it still gives me chills. Can't believe there are people who are into that stuff.
I thought it was more gay guys TRYING to get these diseases, though I wouldn't be surprised people are out there trying to infect people. Some people are sick.
What? Trying to get HIV?
NervousXtian
Thought Emoji Movie was good. Take that as you will.
This is strange. I don't think it's very wide spread.. and if you read the other stories online (which is where I saw it) they linked to a website with an anonymous guy who has a fetish of dropping his load into unsuspecting women.
It's not even a bareback.. it's messing with the condom, oops I came, etc. If the guy is real, which I have doubts as it reads more like fiction, he is a sexual predator.
...but I don't know about changing laws. So either stealthing is about bareback or stealthing is about cumming inside. The articles don't make it clear, but then again there's a reason as there's not much actual info that this is a widespread thing.
Guys have been talking girl's out of condoms since they became a thing, and guys probably used the pull-out for millennia before that. If the law was changed that made it rape if a condom breaks that's fucked up.
You'd have to prove intent.
If a guy does this without consent (taking off the condom) he's an asshole.. and probably should be held accountable.
I believe countries outside have laws that cover that exact same thing... and isn't that what Julian Assange is accused of doing?
It's not even a bareback.. it's messing with the condom, oops I came, etc. If the guy is real, which I have doubts as it reads more like fiction, he is a sexual predator.
...but I don't know about changing laws. So either stealthing is about bareback or stealthing is about cumming inside. The articles don't make it clear, but then again there's a reason as there's not much actual info that this is a widespread thing.
Guys have been talking girl's out of condoms since they became a thing, and guys probably used the pull-out for millennia before that. If the law was changed that made it rape if a condom breaks that's fucked up.
You'd have to prove intent.
If a guy does this without consent (taking off the condom) he's an asshole.. and probably should be held accountable.
I believe countries outside have laws that cover that exact same thing... and isn't that what Julian Assange is accused of doing?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bugchasing
Needless to say I think they need to go ahead and have this declared a mental disease but it does exist.
Obviously it's a terrible thing to do...but I'm not sure it could be called rape 100% of the time.
If the person notices you removing the condom, tells you clearly to stop..but you continue to completion..then that's clearly rape.
..but if the person doesn't notice during the act ..is it rape? or just very wrong (due to tricking them into unsafe sex)?
If the person notices you removing the condom, tells you clearly to stop..but you continue to completion..then that's clearly rape.
..but if the person doesn't notice during the act ..is it rape? or just very wrong (due to tricking them into unsafe sex)?
If you did not consent to unprotected sex, if it happens without your knowledge then it's rape. point blank period.
I don't know why people are having issue crossing this bridge to get to this point.
2Smashed4U
Banned
Guy, if you're taking a condom off while fuckin', something better be communicated first. That's not a thing you "just do"
Vital Tundra
Member
For real. Like what?
..but if that's the case then any woman who tells a man she is on birth control but isn't..is also guilty of rape.
Poor GRIMES
Banned
You think women consent to their partners "stealthily" taking condoms off in the middle of sex?
Uh.....yes. LMFAO
It's rape.
The person didn't consent to sex without a condom. They agreed to have sex under the assumption that protection would be provided to
A) Prevent pregnancy
B) Prevent STD's
You're betraying that person's trust.
This is a bad metric to use. You're literally saying it can't be rape if the victim doesn't notice it happening, which is kinda bad considering a lot of rape happens when the victim is passed out.
I mean... yeah, I'd probably agree to that.
As I said earlier in this thread, I had some extended family talking about doing just that so they wouldn't have to convince their husbands to have kids like actual adults should have to. I was fucking horrified. You're doing something your partner didn't consent to. That's rape.
Now, that's gonna be hard as fuck to prosecute and prove, obviously.
okay great. are you finished making your point now?
edit: I also did not know birth control prevented STDs. condom usage is a health issue as much as it is a pregnancy issue
MiddeSummer
Banned
Wow, at some of you. Fucking idiots.
Yes, it's rape.
Sex is a choice or agreement between to people, like any contract. It has provisions. You violate the provisions, you're liable.
Let's break it down for some of you children.
If he/she says "stop" in the middle of sex and you keep going, it's rape. Duh.
If he/she says "sure, if you use a condom," then you were only given consent to sex on the provision that a condom is worn. If one is not worn, they are not consenting. JFC. If you keep going knowing full well you're breaking the agreement, knowing full well your partner would have told you to stop had they known what you were doing, It's rape. Not all rape is violent. Get over yourselves.
Yes, it's rape.
Sex is a choice or agreement between to people, like any contract. It has provisions. You violate the provisions, you're liable.
Let's break it down for some of you children.
If he/she says "stop" in the middle of sex and you keep going, it's rape. Duh.
If he/she says "sure, if you use a condom," then you were only given consent to sex on the provision that a condom is worn. If one is not worn, they are not consenting. JFC. If you keep going knowing full well you're breaking the agreement, knowing full well your partner would have told you to stop had they known what you were doing, It's rape. Not all rape is violent. Get over yourselves.
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