It's frustrating that there seems to be so much venom between the genders.
Its not so much that, its that people abuse the framework for their own (usually entirely selfish) reasons.
If you read that 'other' site, the common hot take (which should really be called shit take) is the line of reasoning of 'why cant men just stop being misogynistic rapists?'
That's not the issue, the issue has become people abusing the legal frameworks or narratives.
I have never seen anyone legitimately defend rapists, no one is okaying sexual assault, rape, inappropriate advances, abuse of power etc, this is about removinf the possibility of someone weaponising the narrative and keeping everything above board. The men that have become weary of this arent weary of being caught out doing something wrong, they are weary of false allegations where that can destroy their home life, career and reputation.
Unfortunately there are people on both sides of the equation guilty of doing the wrong thing (whether thats a inappropriate conduct or someone falsely accusing someone of inappropriate conduct) and so some are taking it to a point of nipping it in the bud altogether, and the means of doing that arent going to work favourably.
The concept of rape culture on universities is one area that has recently brought about a change where in court, legal prosecution lacks enough strength to convict someone of sexual assault, and so instead college campuses have their own investigation where the burden of proof is signicantly lower and as a result students have had been removed or expelled from the college in situations where a court would have found there to be not enough proof to convict anyone.
I watched a story recently where a young black man admitted to having consensual sex with another student, it went to court and the courts found the interaction to be consensual, but the college still expelled the student and has now left that student in huge debt and unable to finish their degree.
Thats the state of the times now, where one can be proven to be innocent or that there can be insufficient evidence legally, but institutions can still take it upon themselves to punish individuals with significantly less burden of proof