I just can't believe this. Only 6% of respondents have reported 4 sexual partners in the past 12 months? That is outrageously low.
Btw, the topic subject boils down to two perspectives I feel. The first is one that I subscribe to. It boils down to this. I hate using my hand in my dark room with a LED screen to get off. Just because I'm not in a relationship doesn't mean that I'm not looking for a relationship, its just that I haven't found the right girl to settle with. Shall I deprave myself of the pleasures of sex and subject myself to excessive masterbation because she hasn't found her way into my life yet? Fuck that.
I love ladies and love having sex so having casual sex is appealing to me and others I know. Its the way I'm going to operate until a girl and I cross and click. Until then I refuse to only masterbate because of some imaginary standard.
That is an absolutely okay perspective in my book for both sexes. Both sexes should be allowed to enjoy sex with multiple partners without judgement. That doesn't mean people on the other side of the fence can't find X amount of parters to be undesirable. They certainly can and that's an okay perspective and the foundation for my second point.
The second--and one that often gets construed by emotions and overreactions--is that it's okay to place an emotional value on sex, and feel that too many sexual partners means maybe they don't hold having sex to such a high standard as you, and therefore you feel that person and you are incompatible. There is absolutely nothing wrong with holding sex as something sacred. Just not everyone has to have that same standard.
However, what typically happens is people slut shame and make stupid comments that are judgmental and demeaning for someones choice of enjoying sex without seeking a relationship. That is taking what my second perspective is too far into the wrong.