Damn I can't get my point across. I mean modern sexuality is a 20th century invention. The way we use sex as a natural act and people have healthy sex lives and can safely has as much sex as they want.
Women today can safely have sex for pleasure without becoming pregnant and even if they do become pregnant, they have safe ways to terminate pregnancies. Sure there were brothels and prostitutes in the past, but sex for pleasure in a relationship is a modern invention.
And today we even use sexual chemistry as a defining factor for relationships. It's why so many relationships fail too. Hopefully I get what I mean across well.
Honestly, unless you have religious beliefs, or practice virginity/celibacy, the number shouldn't matter, nor should the partners.
Is a woman who has had two relationships in a year but had sex with those boyfriends let's say 362 times in a year, any different than a woman who had sex with 8 different guys, but only had sex 8 times that year?
It's a bit misogynistic to view a woman as "damaged goods" based on how many times or with how many partners she'd had sex.
I get where you're coming from dude, I really do but I could probably get crazy amounts head a hundred years ago. Because a quick BJ is pretty darn pleasurable.
And lets not get into the other *ahem* quirky ways of getting off....