I reallllllly think women who like certain guys will make efforts to reach out to them no matter what.
Yes, I've seen this before too. They would use the lamest excuse to talk to you. Like, really lame lol. My ex did this a lot lmao.
My friend is super introverted. The way she works is that if you poke her, say anything ir just hi, she will open up and write back. (In my case at least, seems most just get one liners)
You can have her on Skype and fb, g+, steam, xfire, etc. But the one thing she doesn't give to anyone is her cellphone number. I have it. If I text I'll get an almost instant reply too.
Recently, a girl who was a friend of mine decided to cut me off to pursue another guy because I would be a threat just being around (the guy doesn't like me, Idc tbh) and so i poked my friend to come and talk with me and another friend of ours. The conversation later moved on to:
- The girl who cut me off considered my friend a threat to any possible relationship we could have, her reasoning is that we "care" about each other too much and even though the friendship has had really messed up moments, we still are there. My friend, she says there is nothing that would give the vibe that we are more than friends and that she doesn't understand why she is considered a threat.
- I mentioned the situation and that I don't feel like reaching out to her. Her response is that she has noticed, she has reached out (in really stupid ways I might add, but in her case, its an achievement to do so)
- When I said that had this not happened, I wouldn't have reached out to her for a month at least, her answer was that she would have reached out, and even *gasp* called me to my cellphone. (She is phone shy. I've heard her talk on her cellphone while we talk on Skype and its true)
- She stressed out that there would be stuff she would help me with if I asked. That it was ok to ask her as much as I wanted. Sure, she might be busy but that I should ask anyway.
All in all, a girl who doesn't want to lose me as a friend. But nothing more that just a friendship. The 3rd person in the conversation stressed out that I should really value her friendship and I do. Otherwise I would have stopped talking to her months ago.
I'm just sure that there won't be anything else than friendship and that since I'm super busy in the week (yes stn I know), I just don't reach out. No point since we don't really share anything at this point. She's single and she knows I like her anyway, but if she doesn't see me that way (she did shot me down. Twice), there isn't anything I can do except move on.
I know it may sound selfish and all, but I'd rather have it like this than being het friend just to try to get more out of it.