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Asking out a female friend... bad news bears or worth the risk?

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Reave

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NO NO NO... do not link her to this page. You've won, Charlie. Let it be. Haha, please for your sake...
 
YakiSOBA said:
I was thinking of linking her this thread, to see if she'd get a kick out of it.. but I've been hesitant... do u think she'll freak out or think it was cute? :p

I totally wouldn't do it if I were you. It's wayyy too dangerous.
 
YakiSOBA said:
I was thinking of linking her this thread, to see if she'd get a kick out of it.. but I've been hesitant... do u think she'll freak out or think it was cute? :p

This is a great idea and will prove her love for you.....
 

Ichirou

Banned
YakiSOBA said:
For your information things are going fine! Hmmpf... people these days.

Sorry for lack of updates, but I figured most people would want this thread to die out instead of hearing me ramble on haha :)

I'm 20, in university (3rd year).

We don't see each other every single day, because sometimes I have classes until 10:30pm and she has morning classes at 8:30am... and if we meet up no one sleeps till the wee hours of the morning

So you make sweet love to her all night long? Awesome. You are my new hero, sir.

**** her gently.
 

Ichirou

Banned
makaveli said:
link to the page by by doing hat shell how nervous you were and how sensitive you are and girls like sensitive guys

Yes, they do. I didn't read the whole thread, but yakiSOBA, did you at any point post about the size of her boobs? Show her that post too, so she can see how attractive you think she is.
 
YakiSOBA said:
I was thinking of linking her this thread, to see if she'd get a kick out of it.. but I've been hesitant... do u think she'll freak out or think it was cute? :p
How is it a person that considers doing something this stupid can get a girl but I can't?
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
YakiSOBA said:
I was thinking of linking her this thread, to see if she'd get a kick out of it.. but I've been hesitant... do u think she'll freak out or think it was cute? :p
I pray to god you do it. please.



please.
 

Alucard

Banned
Yaki, you can't be that stupid. DO NOT LINK HER TO THIS AND REVEAL HOW SAD YOU ARE. :p

"Btw, the only reason we're together is because of advice I got on this message board..."
 

Boogie

Member
YakiSOBA said:
For your information things are going fine! Hmmpf... people these days.

Sorry for lack of updates, but I figured most people would want this thread to die out instead of hearing me ramble on haha :)

I'm 20, in university (3rd year).

We don't see each other every single day, because sometimes I have classes until 10:30pm and she has morning classes at 8:30am... and if we meet up no one sleeps till the wee hours of the morning -- it happened a few times and we agreed it's not a good idea on those days haha.. since we're both hoping to go to medschool, we're both equally serious about our studies!

we text msg each other ALL the time though (cell phone, ims, etc) and I see her probably 5 times a week... (still doing the badminton thing :D)

I was thinking of linking her this thread, to see if she'd get a kick out of it.. but I've been hesitant... do u think she'll freak out or think it was cute? :p

bastard!
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
Alucard said:
Yaki, you can't be that stupid. DO NOT LINK HER TO THIS AND REVEAL HOW SAD YOU ARE. :p

"Btw, the only reason we're together is because of advice I got on this message board..."
Don't listen to alucard. Just show her the thread, she'll think it's cute. Maybe she could become a gaffer herself! Now you KNOW you want to date a gaffer.....you'd be gettin e-props left and right. Go for it bro. Good times are a'comin!
 
hey back from the ban, and i have updates of my situation though i doubt any of you were following it in this thread

So, for a couple Tuesdays, the girl that I have a crush on would come to my house to hang out. We would usually go out to lunch and then come back to watch anime, play video games, movies, just have a good time. Yeah, it's the same girl who found my porn stash. I tried to justify it by saying that every single guy in the universe watches porn. I don't know what she thinks, but it probably doesn't excuse the fact that I have several gigs of fap material.

Anyway, last Tuesday I felt like dropping the bomb and asking her out officially to be my girlfriend. We were watching some Love Hina (oh god is this garbage horrible) and it got really boring. Then we switched off and watched the movie version of Phantom of the Opera. It was a good time. We cuddled under a blanket and sang along to the songs. Movie ends, I had to go to work and yep, I chickened out. I felt like slapping myself.

After work, around 10 that night, I was like **** it I can't put this off. So I called her up to grab some dessert and maybe walking around the Palace of Fine Arts. She was down to do it and also invited a girl friend of hers. : / ugh... yeah. It ended up to be a fun time but there was no way I could do it with her girl friend there.

The next day, I definitely had to do it. I called her up at night and asked her to be my girlfriend on the phone. She said yes and that she liked me too! Yatta! Yeah, I know it was a bitchass way of doing it but whatever man. She's my first girlfriend and I'm 20 just like yakisoba. What is also cool is that I'm her first boyfriend. n00bz <3!!!
 

makaveli

Banned
muttyeah416 said:
hey back from the ban, and i have updates of my situation though i doubt any of you were following it in this thread

So, for a couple Tuesdays, the girl that I have a crush on would come to my house to hang out. We would usually go out to lunch and then come back to watch anime, play video games, movies, just have a good time. Yeah, it's the same girl who found my porn stash. I tried to justify it by saying that every single guy in the universe watches porn. I don't know what she thinks, but it probably doesn't excuse the fact that I have several gigs of fap material.

Anyway, last Tuesday I felt like dropping the bomb and asking her out officially to be my girlfriend. We were watching some Love Hina (oh god is this garbage horrible) and it got really boring. Then we switched off and watched the movie version of Phantom of the Opera. It was a good time. We cuddled under a blanket and sang along to the songs. Movie ends, I had to go to work and yep, I chickened out. I felt like slapping myself.

After work, around 10 that night, I was like **** it I can't put this off. So I called her up to grab some dessert and maybe walking around the Palace of Fine Arts. She was down to do it and also invited a girl friend of hers. : / ugh... yeah. It ended up to be a fun time but there was no way I could do it with her girl friend there.

The next day, I definitely had to do it. I called her up at night and asked her to be my girlfriend on the phone. She said yes and that she liked me too! Yatta! Yeah, I know it was a bitchass way of doing it but whatever man. She's my first girlfriend and I'm 20 just like yakisoba. What is also cool is that I'm her first boyfriend. n00bz <3!!!
picz please
 

Reave

Member
:lol I am seriously hoping you don't link her man... that shit is too risky; she'll find it extremely sweet or borderline psycho. YOU WON. YOU ALREADY WON. Don't. Push. It!
 

Raguel

Member
Wow, both muttyeah and yakisoba are getting girls. What is happening? I mean, things are supposed to crash and burn but...but...it's not. I'm scared.
 

makaveli

Banned
trust me shell like it that you care this much about her and that your so sensitive about her feeling and shell also like that you really care what she thinks
 

Boogie

Member
Raguel said:
Wow, both muttyeah and yakisoba are getting girls. What is happening? I mean, things are supposed to crash and burn but...but...it's not. I'm scared.


Don't worry. There are still some people here you can always rely on.
 

Zenith

Banned
YakiSOBA said:
I was thinking of linking her this thread, to see if she'd get a kick out of it.. but I've been hesitant... do u think she'll freak out or think it was cute? :p

A penny says you screw this relationship up in 2 weeks. You've won! Christ, stop sabotaging yourself.
 

MrSardonic

The nerdiest nerd of all the nerds in nerdland
YakiSOBA said:
I was thinking of linking her this thread, to see if she'd get a kick out of it..

:lol :lol :lol

possibly the worst thing you could do besides beating her
 
muttyeah416 said:
The next day, I definitely had to do it. I called her up at night and asked her to be my girlfriend on the phone. She said yes and that she liked me too! Yatta! Yeah, I know it was a bitchass way of doing it but whatever man. She's my first girlfriend and I'm 20 just like yakisoba. What is also cool is that I'm her first boyfriend. n00bz <3!!!

Guys actually asks girls, flat out, will you be my grilfriend? :)
 

Booser

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I tried to justify it by saying that every single guy in the universe watches porn

You should never have to justify watching porn.

Now that you are an item you should watch porn. Together.
 
In 5 years from now you'll hopefully be able to use your porn stash as a nice segue into having sex with women, rather than cuddling under a blanket together and singing to anime...
 

Oldschoolgamer

The physical form of blasphemy
Yes! A chapter in one of Gaf's many pages that actually has happy ending. DO NOT **** THIS UP BY SHOWING HER THIS THREAD! I say that the mods should ban you if you do it...seriously. Hopefully some of the other gaffers with complications in the love department, have as much luck as you guys.

I would suggest that you leave gaf out of the picture. If she finds out about gaf, let it be threw normal means, and not you showing her this thread. If she finds it, then let her find it on her own. Really shouldn't be a problem if she finds out that way. Hell...i would be impressed if a girl went through something like this for me.
 

TheOMan

Tagged as I see fit
So...you make me read this thread. You come this || close to screwing it up, but somehow you end up winning. You get the girl, you get congrats and statements of jealousy.

Now you want to flush it down the toilet? No. I won't let you. We won't let you. I swear, you link her this thread and the full force of neoGAF will descend upon you with thee fire of 10 000 firey suns.

Although - I must say, strangely I'd like to see her reaction and the awesome twist this episode would have. It would make for an excellent ending to this thread and it would go from happy ending to Shakespearian tragedy. I do like me some good tragedies.
 
Oldschoolgamer said:
Yes! A chapter in one of Gaf's many pages that actually has happy ending. DO NOT **** THIS UP BY SHOWING HER THIS THREAD! I say that the mods should ban you if you do it...seriously. Hopefully some of the other gaffers with complications in the love department, have as much luck as you guys.

I would suggest that you leave gaf out of the picture. If she finds out about gaf, let it be threw normal means, and not you showing her this thread. If she finds it, then let her find it on her own. Really shouldn't be a problem if she finds out that way. Hell...i would be impressed if a girl went through something like this for me.
Don't listen to this man! Do NOT ever let her find out about GAF. Ever. Block it on your computer...and hers if you have to. GAF RUINS LIVES!!!!!!!!!!
 

Algazoth

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Systems_id said:
Don't listen to this man! Do NOT ever let her find out about GAF. Ever. Block it your computer...and hers if you have to. GAF RUINS LIVES!!!!!!!!!!
:lol :lol :lol
No seriously... don't show her this thread.
Although, as a girl, I would love to read the "first date post" if I were her... So if you really must show her anything, just show her that post only.
 
If she sees this thread, it'll concrete her love for you, she'll see what a solid, powerful man you are asking for video game fans help in making you step up & not be a stalker sook. She may ask you to marry her. Bags being the best man!

BTW, we all understand this dude is a 49 year old pedo troll, yeah?
 

YakiSOBA

Member
POWERSPHERE said:
If she sees this thread, it'll concrete her love for you, she'll see what a solid, powerful man you are asking for video game fans help in making you step up & not be a stalker sook. She may ask you to marry her. Bags being the best man!

BTW, we all understand this dude is a 49 year old pedo troll, yeah?

Junior Member.

..and I spose' you guys made a good point, showing her this thread is more likely to creep her out than anything else haha! I almost linked it to her too, glad someone bumped this thread in time before I did then ;D
 

valparaiso

I had an Al Sharpton friend...Once! Well not a friend really, but we talked a few times. Well one time. Well I yelled out my window "GET OFF MY LAWN!"

Reave

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YakiSOBA said:
Junior Member.

..and I spose' you guys made a good point, showing her this thread is more likely to creep her out than anything else haha! I almost linked it to her too, glad someone bumped this thread in time before I did then ;D

Whew... now you've won twice.
 

jenov4

Member
First of all, congrats on hooking up! I'm proud of ya!

And show her this thread in a couple of years when you guys are married with children. That's when it's safe to!
 

Boogie

Member
YakiSOBA said:
..and I spose' you guys made a good point, showing her this thread is more likely to creep her out than anything else haha! I almost linked it to her too, glad someone bumped this thread in time before I did then ;D

....

you don't deserve success.
 

darkbanjo

Member
I was hoping for a Fresh Prince ending. Showing her the thread would make it amusing too.

I can say this, because it's just someone on the internet who would be crushed emtionally if he ****ed this up, it's not real.

Also, Ladder Theory FTW.
 
The OP's success has inspired me to try and ask out the girl that had asked me to go dancing a couple of weeks ago. Granted it probably won't end well, at all, and my window of oppurtunity has probably far passed but I never got any "I'm not interested in you vibes" so maybe there's a glimmer of hope. Damn you OP for convincing me to do something stupid yet again.
 

YakiSOBA

Member
Systems_id said:
The OP's success has inspired me to try and ask out the girl that had asked me to go dancing a couple of weeks ago. Granted it probably won't end well, at all, and my window of oppurtunity has probably far passed but I never got any "I'm not interested in you vibes" so maybe there's a glimmer of hope. Damn you OP for convincing me to do something stupid yet again.

All the best man! If there's one thing that can be learned from this thread, it's that you'll never know unless you try (as cliche as that sounds)

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Let us know how it turns out, gl!
 
YakiSOBA said:
All the best man! If there's one thing that can be learned from this thread, it's that you'll never know unless you try (as cliche as that sounds)

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Let us know how it turns out, gl!
Oh I know exactly how it'll turn out as I'm pretty sure I'll be rejected just like I normally am. BUT...I still have to make sure. Sort of like that movie Minority Report.
 

commish

Jason Kidd murdered my dog in cold blood!
I didn't read the 500 posts, but to the original question, I'm all for asking out that female friend....linking her this thread, though, is not a good idea.
 

snaildog

Member
Seriously, save this thread and show it to her when you're married if you want, but definitely not any time soon. She's still building up her first impressions of you, and girls are attracted to men, not pussies. ;) Remember: it was confidence that got you this far.
 
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