I GOT A GIRLFRIEND........
I GOT A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!
HAHAHA! ME! ME!
Seriously, what the hell... this doesn't even feel REAL... I don't get it... I don't want to go to sleep because I'm scared I'll wake up and this will all be a friggin' dream!
The SCOOP:
Casino Royale at 1030pm EST (wow, kick ass movie btw!!)
We're watching it, things are cool... we're sharing a thing of fuzzy peaches.. I don't really how it happened because I was:
a) really nervous during the movie, didn't want to do anything that'd make her think i was a pervert/creep
b) had to force my head to the screen because it kept wanting to look at where her hands were for some reason
but halfway through the movie, we were holding hands and she was leaning in her seat near me... at first i didn't really even notice, but once I did i started feeling really weird
I tried my best to act natural, and as the movie went on that's exactly what it felt like! IT was the most awesome feeling ever haha, don't really know how to explain what I mean :/
After the movie, it was around 1:30am... i had to use the washroom so she waited outside...
im in the washroom, and I start freaking out.. cuz GAF, I had no idea what to do at this point! During the movie, things couldn't have gone any better.. but now, it was a whole different situation... and to make matters worse I rushed myself at the sink and got a bit of water on my pants... but at least it was dark out so whatever
Im heading out towards the entrance, and i see her outside standing there... and i had nothing. I started to think of what I could talk about, but then I remember someone here saying don't come up with any pre-scripted dialogue because it just wont work... so I decided screw it, just gonna walk out there and see what happens..
Her back was facing the doors, so she didnt see me approach.. and I saw another dude around the corner was hugging his girlfriend (im assuming) around the waist from behind, with his head on her shoulders.... it looked kinda comfortable and i got the idea that i could just say i was keeping her warm... that'd count as flirting I guessed..
So i get behind her, and put my arms around her waist.. didnt really put my head on her shoulders though, and just said "wow its cold out"... then the best thing in the world happened.
She put her hands on my hands, and i dunno i probably creamed my pants like 10 times in a row when that happened, but anyways.. we made small talk until our cab arrived, sat together in the back.. and she had her head on my shoulders the whole ride back, and we were holding hands...
got back to dorms, i walked her to her dorm (HOLDING HANDS!!!!) and it was really quiet, but then I remembered GAF saying "have confidence and the moments of silence will feel natural" so I just kept my mouth shut (even though my head was trying to desperately think of things to ask her to keep a conversation)... get to the entrance of her dorm, and she says "you're a good guy, you'll take care of me wont you?" in a joking kind of way..
I almost choked when I blurted out "haha of course"... then she kissed me ON THE LIPS, it happened so fast I had no clue what the hell was going on.. all I know was that I wouldn't be wearing those pair of underwear again...
me after my first kiss:
so i tell her "gnite" and that i had a great time, and i wanted to say like 10 other things but I knew i should probably shut up... so i just left it at that.. she says she'll call me tomorrow (TODAY)
THIS BETTER F*CKING MEAN I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND, OR ELSE IM GOING TO GO /WRIST
ahem... anyways, that's my update and I dont know what else to say... except that most of you (99%) were right, and that it def. wasnt as hard as I thought it'd be! when i go in without all the prescripted scenarios ive run in my head 99999x times, everything just falls into place and it works!
I hope anyone who ever falls in the same situation as me takes this advice... its ALL OR NOTHING BABY!!! Now I got a raging boner and probably won't be able to sleep until she calls me... O SNAP!
Good job. See what can happen if you just relax a little? Apparently she has liked you for a while, and probably just waited for you to make a move 'couse she was too shy to do it herself... My guess is she already think of you as a pre-boyfriend, but for gods sake, don't go around telling people she's your girlfriend just yet. After a couple of more dates it should be obvious if that's what you are. Most probably, since the girl really likes you. Again, congrats and good luck! Remember that we are here to help out with sex-related questions later
