I think my first exposure to Jordan Peterson was when I was doing some independent research on gender pay gap to get a better understanding of all of the relevant factors, because "cuz the patriarchy" is a facile answer, even if that is a valid component of it. I listened to some of his lectures and he raised some points about how some women have their careers on fundamentally different tracks than men, i.e. at some point they want to shift priorities to having and raising children and will not be down for 120 hour work weeks aiming for the top of the ladder necessarily afterwards, and other factors like not being as assertive about pay raises as men as a whole (or jumping ship to a higher paying job if they're not being paid what they're worth), etc. I found supporting studies for these individual elements and everything seemed pretty reasonable overall: we need to have a multi-faceted understanding about the pay gap, and that understanding will better allow us to correct it. That is, for the components like assertiveness that bear correcting; if a women eschews the shift toward maternity in order to pursue her career fully and that element of the wage gap is corrected for her, one could argue that that component is not an actual problem, just a function of a personal life choice, though of course we can and arguably should have provisions in place for maternity/paternity leave so that everyone can partake in the human experience if they so desire without undue sacrifices. There's probably a healthy balance in there somewhere.
At any rate, after I watched a couple of his lectures my youtube recommendation feed was full of MRA Red Pill stuff and I went "oh god, so he's being co-opted by the us vs them internet gender wars by ridiculous internet people" and bailed out without ever commenting on it on GAF or whatever because of how hostile and polarized and reductive everything had become and how many people would account suicide at me any time I made an appeal to civility and reason and moderation. Seems like maybe we can have a conversation about this sort of thing here now though.
P.S. so basically what you're saying is...