I came back to visit a couple of years ago, and went to Greenhills Mall. I used to think it was a dump, but boy did they renovate the shit out of it.
I came back to visit a couple of years ago, and went to Greenhills Mall. I used to think it was a dump, but boy did they renovate the shit out of it.
Live within the greater Toronto area and I know lots of Filipinos. Phil on YTV was Filipino and he was the greatest host on TV ever. Aren't there a lot of Filipinos in California as well?
Greenbelt in its renovated state reminded me of being in Florida. I really like what they've done to it.
I went to one of the high-end stores there, and all the employees were like soldiers standing at attention. It was odd seeing them so stiff and unresponsive.
Their boss probably delivers savage beatings
I can't stand Kare-Kare. I prefer the "safer" food like tapa, adobo, kaldereta and sisig.
Yup. In the LA area you got places like West Covina/Rowland Heights/Walnut and in NorCal, it's like Stockton/San Jose/Daily City. Have relatives in all those places, lol.Aren't there a lot of Filipinos in California as well?
Aw what, Kare-kare is amazing. That tripe's gotta be really soft though. I hate when it's chewy.
Pinakbet is actually ok for me now. I somehow grew to like it, as I hated veggies as a child.
It helps that squash and eggplant have a meaty texture anyway.
I still remember at my (at the time) girlfriend using skin whitening products on her face for her 18th Birthday and they spent hours making themselves beautiful and I were just thinking "Why? You look like a ghost" (no offense) - it was horrible. =(
But many Filipinos are also kind-hearted and very helpsome and good people but many things can just be too much.
Have you seen the video for "The Top Ten Reasons Why I Hate The Philippines" or something like that? Some of the things you pointed out in this thread are on there.
Loathe is such a strong word, I wouldn't actually use, for me, just annoyed sometimes. Our culture is a pretty damaged culture for sure but there is always hope (this is the optimist in me though).
Believe it or not a lot of people believe the culture is broken, I don't know if its just Manila or the places I've been in but this has been discussed in the media and also in the academe lots of times. I'll be the first to admit the culture is indeed broken, but then so are others and I still see a lot of good stuff, for me there is still hope. Brain drain has caused a lot of damage to the country's progress, that and corruption, politics, etc.Problem is that to fix culture you need to first admit that the culture is broken.
Yeah, I linked to the video on this very page hehe.
Just 5 posts above this one.
To some extent? What is it that you don't agree with?Sorry, didn't see that you did. I agree with it to some extent.
I have noticed that as well, that the younger generations are more dismissive to some things but I see all of these problems with young Filipinos as well. They constantly stick together and it's extremely hard for a half-Filipino like me to feel part of that group. They always go out together (and I'm talking about cousins and relatives too) without telling me or asking me out. And everytime (literally everytime) I ask them out, they can't.
And when I were out with my now ex and her friends, I see an attitude I don't like either. And I never ever see any Danish guys with them when we went to party at night. I'm actually more frustrated with the younger generations than I am with the elders.
Me myself, I love the Philippines, I love my relatives and family and I love all the places, foods, atmosphere and all of it but in recent years I have grown a dislike to the people. I know they are all very kind to people but I get annoyed when they have to tell me how nice they are, how the Filipinos are everywhere and the reason they are everywhere is because they are one of the most loveable people in the world - it screams selfish to me. They constantly involve God and religion in everything and it's fine but it's not cool throwing it down my throat. I have seen so many Filipinos stay in my country illegally after everything their hosts have given them, many of them send away the things they get for free and when they get money for food and such, they spent them on partying and entertainment stuff. And when we have an agreement at a specific time they never ever meet up at the time, or when we have planned to go somewhere it always gets changed to something else. It is utter chaos. It doesn't help that I constantly have to hear about my relatives and friends having an affair when the other part is far away. At least all of what i have mentioned is what I have witnessed the past 5 years.
Personally, I am trying hard to love my people (as I'm half-Filipino) but it has become increasingly hard. Very hard. So much, that I am actually talking with a professional about it so we can try and get rid of my negative feelings, because I really do not wish to have any negativity inside of me. I don't hate the people by any means, afterall I'm half-Filipino and feel somekind of connection to them but it's just hard for me to find them that likeable anymore.
Also don't misunderstand. I tend to fall into this generalisation because it's easier (and for that I am sorry if anyone will feel offended because it's clearly not my goal) but as any other people in the world, it's about the individuals. And there are some horrible individuals and there are some very likeable individuals, also when it comes to Filipinos. I just happens to have had way too many negative experiences with Filipinos.
Now on Sunday, we get visit by a Filipina and her boyfriend (white guy of course) who wants to come and she is the most extreme I have ever met when it comes to religion. She constantly talk about it and that is not nice at all to be around - I wonder how I'll react if she gets going haha. But as always, I will be very welcome to her and talk about other stuff and hope she don't get started on it.
I have noticed that as well, that the younger generations are more dismissive to some things but I see all of these problems with young Filipinos as well. They constantly stick together and it's extremely hard for a half-Filipino like me to feel part of that group. They always go out together (and I'm talking about cousins and relatives too) without telling me or asking me out. And everytime (literally everytime) I ask them out, they can't.
I don't think it's purely because you're half Danish that you feel that way. Contrary to popular notion, being Filipino in and of itself is not always enough. There are more elements needed to maintain solid relationships. The same goes for any other race, really.
Just as an aside, be grateful you're not half Japanese or half Korean if exclusion is a big thing for you. Many of the mixed and overseas-raised Japanese people I've met have broken identities/complexes because they're so ostracized by society here. Meanwhile, Filipinos are easily the most ethnically/racially tolerant people in Asia. Sure, they love their fair share of gossip and hold many stereotypes, but there are blossoming and accepted foreign communities in the Philippines, such as the Chinese (who face tons of institutionalized discrimination in Indonesia and Malaysia, for example). Mestizos tend to be revered in society as well (not necessarily a good thing, but it's better than being ostracized).
Not a Pinoy but currently in Makati.
CHICHAERON BULAKLAK, SISIG, CRISPY PATA ,LECHON KAWALI FTW!!!
(Yes, I like pork)
Hey GAF!
Filipino immigrant here. Moved to Toronto when I was 10. I was born in Cebu, so I still speak Cebuano, but I never got the chance to learn Tagalog, even though I understand it. So what's going on in this thread?
Plus the girls going to Greenbelt are kinda hawt.