wsoxfan1214
Banned
Doesn't matter and should be none of his concern who she was with before.
How many sexual partners for guys is too many? It works both ways.
How about unprotected sex partners? Is that a more useful metric?Guys want to get laid.
Slut shame the women who get men laid.
Devo laughs and laughs and laughs.
Well, we're assuming they're practicing safe sex so I'm not sure why we'd take that into equation unless something suggested it.How about unprotected sex partners? Is that a more useful metric?
It takes into account STI infestationability
So my friends in a bit of a dilemma, which I think he's stupid for but would like some other opinions. He's been dating this girl for a couple months and he really likes her and she's pretty but he found out she'd slept with 30+ different guys in her life, mostly in college. She's 24. I think that's about average, if anything a little high, but nothing crazy, but he says he's thinking about breaking up with her. My wife has had more sexual partners than me but I'm not really bothered by that, if anything I think it's better because she got it out of her system.
For a lot of women, a guy who doesn't last long in bed or is simply not good in bed is a deal-breaker. Most men aren't bothered by women whose sexual skills aren't as good as his.
So you can say it "works both ways" but in reality that's not quite true.
8-12 is too many for marriage material...................
This is just not true. People like to say this is a major double-standard but it has to do with what men and women want, and sometimes they want different things. Women value sexual experience more than men do. For a lot of women, a guy who doesn't last long in bed or is simply not good in bed is a deal-breaker. Most men aren't bothered by women whose sexual skills aren't as good as his. Women are more likely to be turned off by virgins, especially if he's a virgin above a certain age. Men are more likely to be unconcerned by virginity.
So you can say it "works both ways" but in reality that's not quite true.
This is just not true. People like to say this is a major double-standard but it has to do with what men and women want, and sometimes they want different things. Women value sexual experience more than men do. For a lot of women, a guy who doesn't last long in bed or is simply not good in bed is a deal-breaker. Most men aren't bothered by women whose sexual skills aren't as good as his. Women are more likely to be turned off by virgins, especially if he's a virgin above a certain age. Men are more likely to be unconcerned by virginity.
So you can say it "works both ways" but in reality that's not quite true.
How ever many I've been with + 1.
But really, I prefer to go with "don't ask, don't tell" on this one.
Guys want to get laid.
Slut shame the women who get men laid.
Devo laughs and laughs and laughs.
This is just not true. People like to say this is a major double-standard but it has to do with what men and women want, and sometimes they want different things. Women value sexual experience more than men do. For a lot of women, a guy who doesn't last long in bed or is simply not good in bed is a deal-breaker. Most men aren't bothered by women whose sexual skills aren't as good as his. Women are more likely to be turned off by virgins, especially if he's a virgin above a certain age. Men are more likely to be unconcerned by virginity.
So you can say it "works both ways" but in reality that's not quite true.
Exactly nine.
And you base this on what exactly?
"This person probably really enjoys sex. Definitely wouldn't date. 1/10"
Nothing like arbitrary sex negativity. How many movies that I enjoy am I allowed to see?
There's nothing morally wrong with a high number of sex partners. It is, however, a factor to consider when deciding whether you're going to date someone. It's like any other factor that might cause you to break up. I'm sure each of you have broken up with someone for a reason that others would consider petty.
Sure, but it's been something that's happened after the relationship happened. Why would you dump or criticize someone for something they did before?I'm sure each of you have broken up with someone for a reason that others would consider petty.
Depends how big the town is and who these people are.I was expecting you be first post.
8-12 is too many for marriage material...................
I was expecting you be first post.
8-12 is too many for marriage material...................
But the last one doesn't count because it was too small.
There's nothing morally wrong with a high number of sex partners. It is, however, a factor to consider when deciding whether you're going to date someone. It's like any other factor that might cause you to break up. I'm sure each of you have broken up with someone for a reason that others would consider petty.
WOMEN WHO HAVE SEX MORE THAN 8-12 TIMES AREN'T FIT FOR MARRIAGE?
Jesus Christ.
I'd be more concerned about someone who had an affinity for cheating, since that would mean we'd have to work on some trust there, or not wearing protection.
More than me = slut
Less than me = kinda slutty
A lot less than me = aww yess