You implied I was ignorant of how Asian women looked and I replied that actual people from Asia are calling her things like Lolita.
If I'm missing something, please articulate it.
I don't see why I should have to when I, and many others, have done so already,but for you? Anything.
See, you've made a few choice errors in your judgement.
1. Saying "people from Asia are calling her lolita" is actually wrong. It's a subset of creepy dudes. In fact, if you went to Asia, I'm sure they'd know her age outright instead of being baffled by her looks because it's a normality there.
- In the same way, you could apply some people from other countries calling younger popstars "hot schoolgirls" because of their looks and wouldn't assume that to be the pure basis of their attraction because it's not different for you. On that point...
2. Attraction isn't the same from person to person. If a creepy subset of dudes is calling her hot because of her youth appearance reminds them of younger girls, that's on them. Other people call find her cute and attractive without attributing child-like features (or in your case, insecurities!) to her looks.
- This is where the guy who talks about his girlfriend looking younger should be an issue for people here, because it must mean he's a pedo due to her youthful appear, right?
3. Your thought experience, while cute, did the opposite of what you intended it to do. People who live in China responded, people who didn't responded, and even I responded with my own personal insecurities. We differ, though, because I recognize it, but you just don't seem to wanna fix that.
So, that's about as much as I can dumb that down. Nobody is saying those creepy dudes should be attributing her looks to that of a child. Nobody is siding with them. In fact, numerous times, people have explained that she doesn't even look like a 10-year-old girl to you, and that the mere thought of doing so to her and younger looking Asian women is borderline racism.
But hey, here we are.