AnotherOne
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Hit the gym bruh..trust me.
Why? Just because I'm gay that doesn't mean I'm gonna defend every gay out there and lie saying they are all morally correct.As a straight guy I don’t now if I should be appalled or stand up and give you a standing ovation.
Personally I can never see myself go down that path but it’s really weird to hear a gay dude say this .
Don’t mean any disrespect and don’t take this personal but you made it sound like if you whip it out in front of any gay guy......Why? Just because I'm gay that doesn't mean I'm gonna defend every gay out there and lie saying they are all morally correct.
There are tons of sluts out there that will suck any guy and be fucked by any guy in any way.
If you whip it out in front of any gay guy you will most likely hear opinions about it.Don’t mean any disrespect and don’t take this personal but you made it sound like if you whip it out in front of any gay guy......
I love and respect everyone equally.
Closer than the OPs doesHis hand didnt even touch her cunt
I get your avatar now.If you whip it out in front of any gay guy you will most likely hear opinions about it.
In front of certain gay guys, you might get a (seemingly joking) proposition...
To be honest you sound like a piece of shit. But to be fair you didn't give much information but was there ever any conversation about this topic and how in form are you and your wife? There is nothing more unattractive than a man who begs and whines for sex. But seriously find a couple therapist or something.When we got married, our sex drives never matched up completely but at least we did it a few times a week and she seemed into it.
Now that we’re older with a couple of kids, sex sucks. I initiate 99% of the time, and she rejects 99% of my advances. I feel like I have to whine and bitch to get sex and I hate it. We only do missionary cause she refuses to do anything else and lately she even hates to kiss. Frankly I think about leaving all the time but I’m ugly so I don’t have tons of other prospects. I’ve considered escorts just to scratch that itch, but she handles the finances so she would see the missing cash and ask questions. Plus I just started a professional career and getting arrested would obviously put that in jeopardy.
Anyway, yes I’m live journaling. Not really asking for advice but it feels good to get this out. Not a lot of other outlets.
To be honest you sound like a piece of shit. But to be fair you didn't give much information but was there ever any conversation about this topic and how in form are you and your wife? There is nothing more unattractive than a man who begs and whines for sex. But seriously find a couple therapist or something.
P.S. If you find yourself ugly how do you think your wife perceives you?
To be honest you sound like a piece of shit. But to be fair you didn't give much information but was there ever any conversation about this topic and how in form are you and your wife? There is nothing more unattractive than a man who begs and whines for sex. But seriously find a couple therapist or something.
P.S. If you find yourself ugly how do you think your wife perceives you?
Yep, he shouldn’t cheat. That just gives her more ammo against him when/if it comes to divorce. Men get fucked over in the courts all the time. They will give her the kids, his money, and huge child support payments.Dude sounds sexually frustrated. Don't think that makes him a piece of shit, unlike you....
Feel like I'm in a kind of similar situation OP. I feel you. Not easy and it's depressing as fuck.
Just don't cheat dude. If your thinking those lines id be looking at divorce before trying to plan some sneaky way to bang a hooker. You'll more than likely regret it and feel worse after.
Have an honest, calm conversation with your wife about your sex life and see how it goes. Don't attack. Just lay out how you feel. You might find some things out about your wife that you haven't considered. Don't expect anything to change right away either.
When we got married, our sex drives never matched up completely but at least we did it a few times a week and she seemed into it.
Now that we’re older with a couple of kids, sex sucks. I initiate 99% of the time, and she rejects 99% of my advances. I feel like I have to whine and bitch to get sex and I hate it. We only do missionary cause she refuses to do anything else and lately she even hates to kiss. Frankly I think about leaving all the time but I’m ugly so I don’t have tons of other prospects. I’ve considered escorts just to scratch that itch, but she handles the finances so she would see the missing cash and ask questions. Plus I just started a professional career and getting arrested would obviously put that in jeopardy.
Anyway, yes I’m live journaling. Not really asking for advice but it feels good to get this out. Not a lot of other outlets.
Dude you need make her feel wanted. She's only doing it that 1% of the time to shut you up. Do some romantic gestures and and try rekindle what made you guys attracted to one another before sex was involved. Communicate with her on her needs and go from there man.
To be honest you sound like a piece of shit. But to be fair you didn't give much information but was there ever any conversation about this topic and how in form are you and your wife? There is nothing more unattractive than a man who begs and whines for sex. But seriously find a couple therapist or something.
P.S. If you find yourself ugly how do you think your wife perceives you?
I’ve considered escorts just to scratch that itch, but she handles the finances so she would see the missing cash and ask questions.
Prepare for the worst, OP.
Yeah, in my personal experience this isn’t fixable.
Jesus some of the answers here are deplorable.
OP how old are you?
My wife and I are in a similar slump but in her defense we just had our first baby 11 weeks ago and she had a lot of internal vaginal tearing. She should be healed up by now but she isn’t interested in being sexual still. I’m sure it’s a combo of low self esteem (she still isn’t back to pre baby weight yet), fear of pain down there, and exhaustion from dealing with a newborn.
I work 10 hours a day and she deals with the baby all day while I’m gone. When I get home I’m horny af and she’s exhausted.
It’s not really a comparable situation to yours I suppose. I’m sure that once she is ready then things will be back to normal.
I hope things get better for you man.
Yeah, that’s kind of something completely different bro.
When we got married, our sex drives never matched up completely but at least we did it a few times a week and she seemed into it.
Now that we’re older with a couple of kids, sex sucks. I initiate 99% of the time, and she rejects 99% of my advances. I feel like I have to whine and bitch to get sex and I hate it. We only do missionary cause she refuses to do anything else and lately she even hates to kiss. Frankly I think about leaving all the time but I’m ugly so I don’t have tons of other prospects. I’ve considered escorts just to scratch that itch, but she handles the finances so she would see the missing cash and ask questions. Plus I just started a professional career and getting arrested would obviously put that in jeopardy.
Anyway, yes I’m live journaling. Not really asking for advice but it feels good to get this out. Not a lot of other outlets.
1. You're not alone.
2. Tell her how you're feeling. Air it out with her. Not with strangers on the internet.
3. If it's a viable option, seek marriage counseling. If she won't go, go see someone yourself. You may very well benefit from it.
4. If all else fails, consider separation or divorce. No one deserves to live miserably and unloved.
It's funny. A few hours ago i read a post on r/MGTOW with a story very similar to yours.
Couple married for 19 years. After the third child, wife stopped having sex with the guy. He tried everything to fix their relationship. No dice.
Long story short.
Divorce rape
Just wait until she falls asleep. Problem solved.When we got married, our sex drives never matched up completely but at least we did it a few times a week and she seemed into it.
Now that we’re older with a couple of kids, sex sucks. I initiate 99% of the time, and she rejects 99% of my advances. I feel like I have to whine and bitch to get sex and I hate it. We only do missionary cause she refuses to do anything else and lately she even hates to kiss. Frankly I think about leaving all the time but I’m ugly so I don’t have tons of other prospects. I’ve considered escorts just to scratch that itch, but she handles the finances so she would see the missing cash and ask questions. Plus I just started a professional career and getting arrested would obviously put that in jeopardy.
Anyway, yes I’m live journaling. Not really asking for advice but it feels good to get this out. Not a lot of other outlets.
[B][USER=110977]SpartanN92[/USER][/B] said:My wife and I are in a similar slump but in her defense we just had our first baby 11 weeks ago and she had a lot of internal vaginal tearing. She should be healed up by now but she isn’t interested in being sexual still. I’m sure it’s a combo of low self esteem (she still isn’t back to pre baby weight yet), fear of pain down there, and exhaustion from dealing with a newborn.
Looks like I got mistaken for SpartanN92She is lactating and when that happens the hormonal cocktail makes most women not interested in sex.
Breastfeeding Causing Diminished Sexual Desire
Q: I'm 37 and breastfeeding my 10-month-old baby. I have no sex drive and am wondering if the breastfeeding could be the cause. A: First, let me congratulate you on breastfeeding your baby. It's exciting that American women are getting better at breastfeeding—about 70 percent of babies are...www.healthywomen.org
low estrogen, high prolactin = no interest in sex.
at least you're not this guy
at least you're not this guy
at least you're not this guy