The girl I was dating texted with me today. Letting me know that she likes me a lot. We'd been going together for months now. She said I was the first person she truly saw a future with. She suffers from depression herself in the past.
Today I texted the full story to her. How I had sex with my ex while we weren't talking. I never expect to hear back from her. I just made my peace, crafted the full story text and hit send.
Has there been a response to the text?
You have been upfront about what happened and admitted a mistake, I don't need to say that the "we were on a break" isn't going to fly at all.
I think you need to talk to each other, in the written word there is no space for the nuances that are in the spoken word, you said that you didn't see each other often, the only route I can think is if there is a option to meet up, to do so and go through what happened and see if there is a way back, it will never be the same, but it could make the relationship stronger, or it is already the end and it has gone.
As others have said you doubled-down on sending that text, was it the right thing to do, there is an debate for yes and no, I view it that you have put your cards on the table and admitted everything, you have been honest about what you did and why and put the ball in her court.
I hope things work out for you, either with this person or another in the future.