Gladly.
I used to hate it because I didn't want be a part of anything that needed to "hook" people with the most desperate thing possible. I also saw it as shallow (I still do to an extent). When I learned that most every female wants to be seen as attractive or pretty, it hit me that females aren't offended by being look at (of course within reason). At that point, I stopped being so uptight about the whole thing.
There isn't anything wrong with sex appeal. There is something wrong with promoting poor sexual behaviors (treating rape lightly, misogyny, sexual abuse/assault, etc...). Very few games go that far. Besides, even the most elegant women will be nitpicked into a sexual object for the most paranoid.
There's also the image of video games and stuff. Video games aren't one of a kind. Most music is trashy, does that mean music as a whole needs to improve?. Entertainment is all about what's exciting, and for video games, that would be sex and violence. People will always try to find the most negative aspect of anything and highlight that. As informed gamers, it's about not feeding into that and just playing what we like regardless of judgement, because you will know if you are what a video game promotes.
Video games are a wonder in which we can the freedom of self-expression through a game. If someone wants to use that expression on shameless pandering, then so be it. Would it be nice if more game developers were more subtle and "classy" with their approach towards sex appeal, yeah. But seeing attractive females isn't turning people into criminals or anything like that (that's when we would have a problem). Obviously shameless pandering is not for everyone, but to each his own I guess.