Halp! I'm dangerously close to the friend zone with that super hot / cute girl I've talked about before here.
So the points of contention are this: We talked for several months fairly often online before meeting due to our distance and also because I was frankly intimidated by her beauty because she looks better than porn stars I've jacked off to dozens of times.
Somehow she sees me as very strong and she says she thinks she can't hurt my feelings, which is roughly true considering I'm currently also dating 3 other girls BUT she's the cutest so I definitely don't want to 'lose' her to the friend zone.
We've talked about the relationship stuff and she said (paraphrasing a bit), that she had trouble seeing me that way (as in romantically) because of all the time we spent chatting before, and something about 'it would take a while' or something to that extent.
Question is this, I know I have to see her more, do more kino, move my way up, but should I really reduce communications with her.
We've actually talked about communications in our friendship versus a relationship, she even asked last time if we 'were friends' (I can only take this as relationship vs friend level), and I said I saw us as dating but that communications were important.
So what does GAF think. I think I may be cutting things a bit close and maybe I should not ever initialize communications from here on out until we're in a relationship. (She called me last time we talked)
P.S. She talks to me openly about the things she doesn't like in other guys and why she doesn't want to be in a relationship with them. Some of those things are specifically things I have that other guys lack. I guess I worry about being a hot enough guy to hang with her. Seriously, she's gorgeous. She's generally dating around now (actually something I suggested).
So I have a drink date with this girl from OKC tomorrow, and I am kind of thrown off by how unnervingly gorgeous she is.
The last time I got set up with a girl this pretty, I totally clammed up the entire night and the friend that made it all happen was not a happy camper at all.
Only advice I can give is she's just a human being. I didn't have trouble clamming up, I had brilliant conversations, but it did slow down my game a bit during this last super hottie date.