I wish. On an elevator? Just standing.
On the bus? Just sitting. Anywhere else? Just walking. Or studying. In my hall? I already know them.
elevator im assuming is in your halls, which im assuming is university residence
-you see the guy at the hot dog vendor outside? he was dressed crazy!
-i fucking hate how these keycards dont work sometimes
-i never remember how disgustingly old and dingy these elevators are until i actually get on them. never fails.
- nice shoes.
on the bus
- nice shoes
- as you're sitting down: wow its freezing/warm out
while waiting for the bus
-do you know when the bus is coming
-why is this bus always late
-have i seen you around here before?
interupting people who are walking places is weird, unless for specific purpose. such as you're with friends and they call you out on being too much of a pussy to go up and talk to that pretty girl you're all watching walk by. in which case you shortly jog up to her and say hey can i talk to you for a quick sec? i just commented to my friend on how pretty you are and he called me out on it so while its painfully obvious that any girl that looks like you is probably already in a relationship, i thought i'd come introduce myself regardless. (thats just how i'd do it, and would only work for me because it would be done in a really humorous way. play to your strengths)
while studying .... in a non-quiet zone area of course
-can i borrow a pencil (except you dont just say 1 line to her. start with how theres this embarrassing story about how while you're smart enough to study engineering, apparantly you're not smart enough to remember how to bring a pencil with you to the library. then take note of what shes studying and comment on how you were interested in that but would never be able to understand chemistry/how to write proper english essays/how to research for history classes/how to do intense economics
-would you mind watching my stuff for a quick second? *agonizingly handsome smile* then when you come back 'hey sorry i took so long, i hope i didnt keep you waiting or anything' if she says anything, continue on. if she just shrugs or says no, as you slide into your chair say 'ahhh i just really needed a break from this stuff even though im almost done' and she'll agree, and you ask her what shes up to, or she'll just ask what stuff you're doing, and after an hour or whatever you can see if she's ready for a break too and go get coffee
in halls
-hang out with people you know but dont reaaaally know, as an effort to increase your conversation skills.
-make friends with your friends friends
clothing wise
- you can always comment on something on a girl. i used nice shoes cause recently some girls were wearing moccasins. i think they're dumb as hell but they are much more unique than average shoes, and so yea, on some level they're interesting. just gotta do it in a way where you seem interested in the thing you're commenting on, but not so much that its not obvious you're only saying it cause you're hitting on them. at a party this weekend some girl was nearly in hysterics cause everyone including her roomates were yelling at her for calling the cops cause a girl was unresponsive (alcohol) and a bit later she was in the hallway watching the paramedics treat the girl and i was in the doorway to a bedroom so i got her attention by saying her name then looked at her feet and said i like your moccasins. in the midst of it all she stopped, smiled, laughed a little bit and said 'awe you're a sweetheart'
ive done all of these things btw. not often, mostly only when im really intrigued by a girl, but if you're conciously trying to improve your conversational/social skills, use every opportunity with every kind of person.