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Just had sex with a man - fucking awful

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Disclaimer: This is good for sexual orientation, not sexual identity.

I prefer

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Tell a straight guy he's boring while slightly buzzed and youll get a blow job out of it.

Lies this never worked for me.

Also for the people arguing labels. I'm gay and I love men but I had sex with women in high school and freshman year of college.

I always thought about guys and never found girls that attractive. Just cuz op experimented one time doesn't indicate he is bi.

Sorry you didn't enjoy some man love op Props for experimenting though.
 

That's some more advanced stuff, trying to incorporate sexual identity and sexual orientation. The rabbit hole always goes deeper though.

Intersex is a really interesting newer area of research. I was totally blown away when I found out how many people are technically intersexed.
 

DedValve

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People calling OP gay for 1 encounter are part of the problem. Sexuality isn't binary like many, many things when it comes to human behaviour.

You can be straight and still have sex with the same sex. Prison culture is a pretty good look at that.
 
People calling OP gay for 1 encounter are part of the problem. Sexuality isn't binary like many, many things when it comes to human behaviour.

I'm curious how many posters who were so quick to label the OP as gay would also label a woman gay because she experimented with another girl once but has otherwise been in exclusively heterosexual pairing.

Nobody really gets to decide another person's sexuality for them.
 

Galang

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Lies this never worked for me.

Also for the people arguing labels. I'm gay and I love men but I had sex with women in high school and freshman year of college.

I always thought about guys and never found girls that attractive. Just cuz op experimented one time doesn't indicate he is bi.

Sorry you didn't enjoy some man love op Props for experimenting though.

Exactly this. I also know many friends who identify as gay, but have slept with women before. I haven't gone all the way with a woman, but have experimented. Do not consider myself bi at all and it would never ever happen again
 

besada

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The first couple of pages reads like a bunch of fourteen year olds shouting "gay" like it was "cooties". The idea that a single sexual act with someone of the same sex "makes you gay" is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard. If true, then there are a ton more gay people out there than anyone ever expected, including a shitload of people from prison, everyone who ever participated in an orgy or three way, and a bunch of happily hetero-married people who never repeated their experiment.

Frankly, it sounds condemnatory and pejorative when you start labeling other people's sexuality against their will. And if we ban when you refuse to accept people's gender identity, what do you think we'll do when you refuse to accept their sexual identity?
 

ahoyhoy

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GAF showing how much it loves little boxes for things and piling up on people unsure of themselves in one fell swoop.
 

Ms.Galaxy

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The first couple of pages reads like a bunch of fourteen year olds shouting "gay" like it was "cooties". The idea that a single sexual act with someone of the same sex "makes you gay" is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard. If true, then there are a ton more gay people out there than anyone ever expected, including a shitload of people from prison, everyone who ever participated in an orgy or three way, and a bunch of happily hetero-married people who never repeated their experiment.

Frankly, it sounds condemnatory and pejorative when you start labeling other people's sexuality against their will. And if we ban when you refuse to accept people's gender identity, what do you think we'll do when you refuse to accept their sexual identity?

I have to agree. I am in the opinion that humans are much more loose and curious as a species when it comes to sexualitiy than people believe. Committing a homosexual act once or twice for curiosity's sake doesn't make you gay, in my mind. I think it's pretty normal for a lot of people to experiment their sexualities once or twice, usually to make sense of what it could be or because they simply want to try it out. Then there's cases when having sex with someone of the same sex is seen as convenient rather than desired, such as people in prison or in militaries.
 

Ms.Galaxy

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Sounds to me you would appreciate a woman's body cos they are a work of art.



Men's bodies are just for getting around.

I disagree, men's bodies are just as beautiful as any work of art.

The penis alone is the most celebrated art in the world. Its shape is tantalizing, and the aroma is encaptivating. The taste is bitter, but it turns more sweet as you swish it around in your mouth. The nectar it releases always tastes different depending on its owner; from salty, to bitter, to sweet, and even spicey. Truly a blessing and a wonder of artistic nature.

... Great, now I want to give my BF a blowjob.
 

rhandino

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This is a convoluted diagram to present such simple information.

All it's saying is you can be male, female, unspecified, or both, and into guys, girls, or both.

If that's all you get from it you aren't reading it right.

This diagram is imprudent and seems to be self defeating.

What?

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Oh, so you're unable to actually extrapolate a response explaining how a simple set diagram is 'imprudent' and 'self defeating'. Alrighty then.
 
I disagree, men's bodies are just as beautiful as any work of art.

The penis alone is the most celebrated art in the world. Its shape is tantalizing, and the aroma is encaptivating. The taste is bitter, but it turns more sweet as you swish it around in your mouth. The nectar it releases always tastes different depending on its owner; from salty, to bitter, to sweet, and even spicey. Truly a blessing and a wonder of artistic nature.

... Great, now I want to give my BF a blowjob.
...what...did you just do to me
Does anyone want to be gay with me for 1-3 hours tonight? Pls respond

Yeah think I'm in a state now after I read that. What public restroom u wanna meet in
 

jesu

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I disagree, men's bodies are just as beautiful as any work of art.

The penis alone is the most celebrated art in the world. Its shape is tantalizing, and the aroma is encaptivating. The taste is bitter, but it turns more sweet as you swish it around in your mouth. The nectar it releases always tastes different depending on its owner; from salty, to bitter, to sweet, and even spicey. Truly a blessing and a wonder of artistic nature.

... Great, now I want to give my BF a blowjob.

Does asparagus affect it?
It makes my pee smell funny.
 
not really, it's just that, as cultural defines it, straight means you're into the opposite sex. once a person decides to engage sexually with a person of the same sex then you're not straight anymore.

i would think you're bisexual but with a focus mainly on men. I wouldn't say that you're gay because you would have sex with certain women.

I don't think sexuality abides by the one-drop rule.
 
This obsession with labelling people. OP experimenting same-sex doesn't make him gay the same way gay guys having sex with girls before coming out doesn't make them straight.

It is not like sexuality isn't fluid, anyway.

Well, according to the one-drop(of cum) rule, OP is gay,

But I subscribe to the toggle rule. He is gay until he has sex with a woman, then toggles to straight.
 
yeah.. I could imagine it not being very pleasant haha ;3

I'm grossed out by guys, really

being one, I know how gross our anatomy is :p
 
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