Checking in. This is it, 2012 and OT3 will help me finally get things going. I turn 30 this year, and it´s about time to find that first GF or just have some advance in that area (getting past first date).
I finally have a good job, just bought my own apartment, finalizing the deal on a car, and i think things are setting up for me to be mentally ready to go out on the jungle.
However, i feel i need to coment on this:
Depends how old you are. Im 28 and a virgin. Im fucked and it will be detectable instantly. I imagine the younger you are the less likely girls will notice anything.
You just have that other problem of a girl not thinking you are any good and want to drop you, which then brings up the question do you admit the reason why you arent any good or do you not care? Basically it sounds like virgins arent looking at any real relationship potential until they've slept with a bunch of girls.
Since i was late on everything, my first kiss was when i was 21, after college. It was with a girl i liked, and it wasn´t good because i was clueless. I had no idea what to do. No experience at all. I tried to get a second date with her, but no good, my bad first impression just killed and i was really mad at that.
That´s where virginity came into place. I decided right there that i needed some practice on bed otherwise if i stayed a virgin until getting a girl to have sex, i could ruin my experience with a nice girl once again because of the lack of experience.
I decided i had to have sex, and i know most people have some restrictions on this, it´s taboo and stuff, but i decided to look for a hooker.
Best decision i made in my life. I was 21 at the time, 29 now, and all this time my sex life has been nothing but prostitutes.
I know some people feel strongly against this, but truth is, those girls can really help you on confidence side.
Not only that, (this depends on country, but on mine there are a lot of semi models doing this), but you can get super hot amazing women on the market. By getting that, i also finally took pussy out of the pedestal once and for all because hey, now i know i can have sex with gorgeous women anytime i want - i just need to pay. This changes everything.
After you get that out of your system, you feel different about the regular ones you meet, and it certanly makes you less of a wimp.
From my brief stint in the USA it seemed to me like prostituition was not as open/normal as it is where i live, so i don´t know if it´s a good sugestion to you guys. Some might view me as a dirty prick that disrespects women.
But if you ask me, you shouldn´t be still waiting for your first time. I can´t think of myself not getting any all this time, i think i would have exploded or went crazy instead. I really helped me.
Even with that i know i will have my first "real first" in the future, so no harm in doing this.