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Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
I'm seeing a girl I've already hooked up with, and have been on like 7 dates with. I really like this girl GAF, but one thing bother me; she has a kid.
Am I selfish asshole?
I'm 24 and shes 21, and don't get me wrong I love kids, but this is an aspect I've never had to deal with and I don't know how to handle it.
Shes a really cool girl and I have a lot of fun with her, but the added burden of a kid thats not mine, has defiantly affected our dates and my own psyche.
ok i'm going to have a relationship of any sort by the end of next semester. i'm too lonely not to
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
Present and accounted for. None of them are super-close or anything, though. Still friends.
It's usually easiest to become friends with friends' girlfriends.
Walk. Not because she has a kid but because you have doubt. Never engage in a relationship with doubt, regardless of reason. You deserve what you desire and she deserves someone who desires her completely.
Her child deserves that as well.
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
Present and accounted for. None of them are super-close or anything, though. Still friends.
It's usually easiest to become friends with friends' girlfriends.
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
I have a lot of female friends. I go out for drinks with 3 different girls on a weekly basis -- 2 of these girls I dated briefly and we remained close friends. At times this becomes group things of me, Girl 1 , and then two of her female friends. I get to listen to them complain about their dating lives, why men suck, etc.. Given being out in such a group has also led me to getting some phone number from guy's or asked if I'm gay.
Pretty much all girls feel comfortable around me and are open about every aspect of their life. Honestly don't know if that is a compliment anymore.....
So yesterday was en eventful day. Girlfriend got into a spat with her mom said the f word and her mom decked her. She shoves her mom to get her away from her who then calls her older sister who comes over and gets bullyish.
Needless to say when I got off work I was less than amused and got myself uninvited from future family gatherings for sure by reminding her family they were all pieces of shit who belong in the sewer with the rest of the pieces of shit.
Does she live at home so she's forced to deal with their bullshit?
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
I have a lot of female friends. I go out for drinks with 3 different girls on a weekly basis -- 2 of these girls I dated briefly and we remained close friends. At times this becomes group things of me, Girl 1 , and then two of her female friends. I get to listen to them complain about their dating lives, why men suck, etc.. Given being out in such a group has also led me to getting some phone numbers from guys or asked if I'm gay.
Pretty much all girls feel comfortable around me and are open about every aspect of their life. Honestly don't know if that is a compliment anymore.....
Nah this was a case of the holidays getting out of control for sure. Certainly not expecting any christmas gifts this year
I must have really shitty female friends then.
Get some new ones.
Problem is that those friends aren't suited for me.Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
I want a new playground more. Fresh start for everything.
That's what I'm about to do. January I'm going to a different city and starting fresh.
Moving somewhere else isn't always the solution. It comes from within.
Moving somewhere else isn't always the solution. It comes from within.
Moving somewhere else isn't always the solution. It comes from within.
Kind of sounds like she wants to experience going to bars this phase in her life and you don't want that scene. Being a DD and babysitting people that can't take care of themselves sucks.I posted my situation right before the last thread ended, so I won't post it again, but I'm seeing my girlfriend tomorrow night after a really shitty week of her causing me a lot of pain, literally and figuratively, and I'm wondering how to deal with it all.
She basically knowingly disrespected me and my feelings so that she could have a good time. She knew that her actions would make me very upset and angry, yet it apparently didn't matter to her.
I'm not a very aggressive guy, but how do I put my foot down and tell her that she won't disrespect me again or ....? I've never been a fan of ultimatums, but if I knew doing something would upset my girlfriend, I wouldn't do it. I do want to be with her, but I'm not sure how to tell her that you will not disrespect me again in a firm enough way to get the point across.
MustacheBandit_, the guy who makes them, says it's real.What do you guys think about the Simple Pickup guys? Is it a scam? How the fuck do they pick up girls in crazy costumes?
Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
I've made quite a few women friends these past two months. I love the company of women. It definitely will help you network with their friends.Harsh but serious question how many of you single guys just make friends with women? Seems to me the easiest way to be introduced to more women other than school, websites, clubs is through other women.
What do you guys think about the Simple Pickup guys? Is it a scam? How the fuck do they pick up girls in crazy costumes?
I posted my situation right before the last thread ended, so I won't post it again, but I'm seeing my girlfriend tomorrow night after a really shitty week of her causing me a lot of pain, literally and figuratively, and I'm wondering how to deal with it all.
She basically knowingly disrespected me and my feelings so that she could have a good time. She knew that her actions would make me very upset and angry, yet it apparently didn't matter to her.
I'm not a very aggressive guy, but how do I put my foot down and tell her that she won't disrespect me again or ....? I've never been a fan of ultimatums, but if I knew doing something would upset my girlfriend, I wouldn't do it. I do want to be with her, but I'm not sure how to tell her that you will not disrespect me again in a firm enough way to get the point across.
What do you guys think about the Simple Pickup guys? Is it a scam? How the fuck do they pick up girls in crazy costumes?
Girls will confide in me very quickly. One might call that a friendzone or being used as an emotion sponge, but since I'm not in love, trying to date, or jealous if they date someone I have a nice connection and conversations that matter to the both of us along with having fun together.You know, I feel like it's a bit more difficult to make female friends. But that's because I don't want to give off the perception that I'm going after them.
Is this in the fucking fourth thread already?
I have been dating someone seriously for a year now, so I can't sort of join in on the fun now...
Re-reading my post I want to clarify that her having a kid hasn't affected our dates, rather how we schedule dates. Sometimes she has to take care of her kid or sometimes her ex has the kid etc.
I get what you're saying though. We'll see what happens, I like her and I just feel like an asshole for even having these thoughts.
They're willing to do what others won't. They're different from most guys even though they still chase women like everyone else. They rarely show when things go sour though, unless it's funny, of course. By showing that they're carefree and have balls, it's clear that they are men, something that most women are attracted to.What do you guys think about the Simple Pickup guys? Is it a scam? How the fuck do they pick up girls in crazy costumes?
What do you guys think about the Simple Pickup guys? Is it a scam? How the fuck do they pick up girls in crazy costumes?
Everybody, male or female, cares about looks. What world are you people living in?
That's the only first impression we have. Looks are very important. If you're not attractive you're going to have to work extra hard to get a girl to be attracted to you, and you better damn well have something else going on for you. Good job, money etc.
I mean lets face it, if you're extremely good looking girls are going to come to you, i've seen it first hand. Literally. A few years ago my freind was at a mall and a girl came up to him and grabbed his face and said "you're so cute." I don't need to explain further what happened. You think if he was unattractive she would do that? Or even notice him? No. He would have to try as hard as he possibly can to get her attention. He even knows why he gets alot of girls. "They like that look" i remember him telling me. He treats this one girl he has like complete shit yet she still stays with him.
Im not saying it's impossible to get a girl if you're an average looking, or even ugly, guy. It's not. We see it all the time. But you're going to have to put in extra work and have something else in your life that offsets your ok looks.
We all want something pretty to look at.
Everybody, male or female, cares about looks. What world are you people living in?
That's the only first impression we have. Looks are very important. If you're not attractive you're going to have to work extra hard to get a girl to be attracted to you, and you better damn well have something else going on for you. Good job, money etc.
I mean lets face it, if you're extremely good looking girls are going to come to you, i've seen it first hand. Literally. A few years ago my freind was at a mall and a girl came up to him and grabbed his face and said "you're so cute." I don't need to explain further what happened. You think if he was unattractive she would do that? Or even notice him? No. He would have to try as hard as he possibly can to get her attention. He even knows why he gets alot of girls. "They like that look" i remember him telling me. He treats this one girl he has like complete shit yet she still stays with him.
Im not saying it's impossible to get a girl if you're an average looking, or even ugly, guy. It's not. We see it all the time. But you're going to have to put in extra work and have something else in your life that offsets your ok looks.
We all want something pretty to look at.