In need of a little advice, Gaf. Last summer I was seeing a girl, let's call her girl A, for a few months in which we dated and things got pretty serious between us. However, as is practically inevitable when you're early in a relationship, the distance (she goes to a different University some 8 hours away) and the conflicting schedules meant that we both sort of decided it would be best not to do the whole long-distance thing. I have no idea what her situation has been with guys over there, and she has no idea what I've been doing over here. This week she's on break early and is back in town and one of the first things she did was get in touch with me, see how I've been, and asked to hang out. I'm conflicted about this because it was hard enough to move on from her, and while I've missed her and still care about her dearly, I'm not sure what good it will do me to see her for one night and then go our separate ways for another 4 months or more. At the same time, I don't fancy losing her in my life, and I'm afraid rejecting her and not hanging out will be another nail in the coffin for our relationship, whatever it is.
Now, on to Girl B. Equally stunning girl, really sweet, and someone who I'd had a tiny crush on, on and off, for about two and a half years. A few months back she ended a long-term relationship and maybe a month ago we started talking pretty frequently, and we've both developed some feelings for each other. She's a good girl and while neither of us is looking for a serious relationship yet I think we've established we love spending time together, going out, and that there is something there that could develop into something wonderful. She's in our circle of friends as well, as she's actually the younger sister of one of the good fellas in our group. He's told me on numerous occasions that he's okay with the whole deal (I never would have pursued her in the first place, as he was my good friend first) and that he thinks better me than anyone else. She also gets bonus points in my book for being younger than me, unlike Girl A who is older, however silly that may be. We've got our first 'real' date this week (we've had numerous all nighters together already that really were wonderful) before we go our separate ways for the Christmas break.
The dilemma for me is how I feel about seeing both of them. Both the relationships have developed to the point where I have a pretty solid inkling that both hangouts with each girl will result in some sort of sexual activity. Rather than excite me or make me feel good, that makes me feel like an asshole. Because I don't want to juggle both of them, neither would I like to hurt either of them. I care about them both a great deal and don't really know what the next move is. Do I break it off with Girl A due to the impossibility of it being a real relationship any time in the next year (she'll be back in this town when she graduates, at the end of June)? Am I being too sensitive and should I explore how I feel about both girls, who are very close to being equal in my eyes? Do I mention to Girl B the situation at all or keep it hush?
I know that was a long read but I really do appreciate the help, ladies and gents.