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[Vermillion]

Oh come on, a lot of them are easy to talk to.

No - I have female friends. Hell, one of my closest friends in college is female, one of my closest friends in high school was female, etc. I've talked to random girls at parties and made jokes, danced, whatever. That's not me saying it's not easier to talk to other guys (for me), but no - I do have female friends.

Though I feel like I generally get along with the girlfriends of my friends the easiest.

EDIT: I should also note - don't mistake my arguments for having a personal stake in the argument. I was just expecting a more interesting methodology for the guys without game having sex, lol

 

[SquiddyCracker]

No - I have female friends. Hell, one of my closest friends in college is female, one of my closest friends in high school was female, etc. I've talked to random girls at parties and made jokes, danced, whatever. That's not me saying it's not easier to talk to other guys (for me), but no - I do have female friends.

Though I feel like I generally get along with the girlfriends of my friends the easiest.

You sly dog.

 

[Fudgepuppy]

As many that would be required for it to be considered an unhealthy and destructive addiction.

That counts for men too.

 

[Keen]

I have lots of female friends, and I haven't even slept with some of them.

 

[Gr1mLock]

I have lots of female friends, and I haven't even slept with all of them.

all? Fuck you good sir

 

[Keen]

all? Fuck you good sir

English as a second language fail, corrected.

 

[SeanR1221]

I heard a wise man once say that 30% of men are having sex with 70% of women, with the remaining 60% men either going without sex or hooking up with one of the remaining 30% women.

He also said that when you start going to the gym it'll take 4 weeks for you to notice the changes, 8 weeks for your friends to notice, and 12 weeks for everyone to notice.

Ahahahahahhaa. I loved that line.

 

[strata8]

all? Fuck you good sir

"Fuck, you good sir" or "Fuck you, good sir"?

 

[Vitten]

Oh, bullshit. I'd never cheat on my husband. Doesn't mean I didn't enjoy the hell out of a good fuck, and often, when I was younger.

I really don't understand all the generalizing I'm seeing. This thread: Arbitrary measurement = x, always.

Life tip: people can behave situationally. People can change. People often do change and are not the same at 13, at 23, at 33, etc. Behaving like x at one stage does not mean a person will behave in y fashion at another stage.

Possible problem: someone who had a lot of risky unprotected sex (just as frequent blackout drunks or unsafe drug use can be red flags). Or if someone has unaddressed psychological trauma that has caused them to "act out." But general human behavior has levels. Maybe Person A's level isn't compatible with Person B's. That makes sense. We all want/expect different things; a good relationship often means finding compatibility on our wants and needs. But all these OMG reactions that end in THEY WILL CHEAT! THEY ARE CRAZY! SUMFIN WRONG WITH DEM BITCHES are mindboggling to me. Like, I know it's hip to make these ironclad declarations of opinion-as-fact, but damn, y'all. At some point, can we generalize less and discuss gray area and interpretation more?

eta: not saying that trauma = bad person, but rather that trauma should be handled, treated if necessary, etc., particularly if it's negatively impacting behavior

Take it as you want but if I hook up with a 24 year old girl who say she's already had 30 partners it tells me she's
- either not in a faze yet of her life where she's looking for something serious.
- or she's one of those people who will always be on the look out for the next best thing instead of being happy with who they've got and making compromises and won't stick around too long once things get 'stale' or the first arguments start to happen after the first months of moonshine .

 

[SmokyDave]

Nah it's harder for some men to get laid so it' more like 2% of men having sex with 8% of men.

Can we get someone from Sales-Age to plot this on a graph?

 

[TheDanger]

How many is too high for a dude? This shit is dumb.

What would you rather have? A master key that opens all locks or a cheap lock that can be opened with every key?

The reason is that for women (who are not extremely ugly) it's very easy to get laid, they just have to ask. For men it's way more difficult.

 

[Devolution]

Can we get someone from Sales-Age to plot this on a graph?

It would just end up looking like a penis.

 

[Soup Bar]

4 might be too many, because one dude is just standing there waiting his turn.

 

[Gr1mLock]

English as a second language fail, corrected.

where do i even start. i dont have female friends but im pretty sure you could fuck almost everyone i know

"Fuck, you good sir" or "Fuck you, good sir"?

Fuck you good sir

 

[AdventureRacing]

Take it as you want but if I hook up with a 24 year old girl who say she's already had 30 partners it tells me she's
- either not in a faze yet of her life where she's looking for something serious.
- or she's one of those people who will always be on the look out for the next best thing instead of being happy with who they've got and making compromises and won't stick around too long once things get 'stale' or the first arguments start to happen after the first months of moonshine .

Or maybe they just had a fun time fucking around in college. Most people nowadays lose their virginity around what 15-16? That's like 3-4 sexual partners a year. Considering she has basically went through the period where people tend to experiment the most is that really such a huge number?

You're also making some assumptions about why she is having sex. Those are some very unfair assumptions you're making and i'd say that it says more about you than it does about you're potential partners.

 

[Vermillion]

You sly dog.

Mm. At any rate, my argument here isn't about me. And as I've said - just because it's easier for women to get laid does not qualify as an excuse for men not getting laid. Attractiveness also makes it easier to get laid on average, but there are plenty of less attractive people who are getting laid regularly (or more than that) just fine. *shrug*

 

[SmokyDave]

It would just end up looking like a penis.

Now I want to see the graph in the middle of a narrow Venn diagram.

This must be how mathematicians practice foreplay.

 

[Funky Papa]

GAF happened.

I knew I fucked up somewhere...

 

[squidyj]

I would say 5. At the same time, because that's just too many, nobody really gets the attention they deserve that way.

 

[TAJ]

Well, to be fair, anyone posting that gif probably has no idea what a real life vagina looks like.

Naw, I've heard guys with kids use that phrase.
Rafa called it. It's an accidental small penis admission.

 

[Keen]

where do i even start. i dont have female friends but im pretty sure you could fuck almost everyone i know



Fuck you good sir

Well, you're married. So you're ahead of me there.

Fuck you good, sir?

 

[Vermillion]

I would say 5. At the same time, because that's just too many, nobody really gets the attention they deserve that way.

Reminds me of a conversation in elementary school.

But actually. "How many guys do you think a girl can take at the same time?" Most interesting boy that was.

 

[SquiddyCracker]

It would just end up looking like a penis.

The terms I came up with were kinda shit though.

 

[FyreWulff]

4 might be too many, because one dude is just standing there waiting his turn.

Unless he's bi.

Spoiler

Or he and she are into boobfuckin'

 

[monome]

are we doubting girls own their bodies?

hopefully not.

Guy's pride > Guy's love is an old dilemna. there is no consensus. that OP's friend has asked himself the question is a pandora's box.

IMO, the merrier time a girl has when it comes to sex, the best person she becomes. I would not bail out the relationship, even though I understand it can pinch to think about it.
There are better things to do in a relationship than question the "morality" of your partner...

 

[SeanR1221]

 

[SmokyDave]

Sean, you're clearly a genius. Kudos.

 

[SeanR1221]

Sean, you're clearly a genius. Kudos.

I like to think of my self as the sexual Einstein of our generation.

The most interesting part about my findings is the odd trend in nice guys. All over the play yet still no sexual partners.

 

[smoothj]

You don't need to know how many guys your girl has slept with. You can usually tell by how she behaves in bed or how used the equipment looks.

I usually go by the don't ask don't tell policy. Worry about something else, she's with you now and that's all that matters. Unless she has sharp knees or big cafs, fuck that.

 

[ComputerMKII]

'Too many', according to what criteria?

 

[SmokyDave]

I like to think of my self as the sexual Einstein of our generation.

The most interesting part about my findings is the odd trend in nice guys. All over the play yet still no sexual partners.

If I was a mod, your tag would now be 'Sexual Einstein'.

You don't need to know how many guys your girl has slept with. You can usually tell by how she behaves in bed or how used the equipment looks.

Um, nope. Not at all. Some of the prettiest vaginas I've had the pleasure of knowing have belonged to very experienced women.

 

[strata8]

You don't need to know how many guys your girl has slept with. You can usually tell by how she behaves in bed or how used the equipment looks.

I'd love to know how this is different from someone just having lots of sex generally.

 

[Whitechocolatekrispies]

it always annoyed me, to see men get glorified for banging every girl down the block and getting patted on the back and congratulated for it. I think both men and women get this idea instilled in their heads during their teenage years, ya know, High School. A girl who gets hers is a slut/whore/is easy. And the guy counterpart is a stud/playa/manwhore, all of these are compliments. Lol, so primitive.

Think of it like this.

A key that opens many locks is considered a good key. A lock that is opened by many keys is not a good lock.

 

[Eidan]

You don't need to know how many guys your girl has slept with. You can usually tell by how she behaves in bed or how used the equipment looks.

The hell? That makes absolutely no sense. You should really think more before you say some stuff.

 

[styl3s]

30+ partners by 24? No thanks.

Not saying she is a slut but for me, too many. That's just my personal view.

 

[fanboi]

Can someone explain to me the following trend on GAF:

- If, girl, have had sex with plenty of dudes, lets say 50 guys, and had a total amount of sex of 100, how can her "equipment" look/smell different compared to a girl who have had 1 standing guy and a total of sex 100 times?

Get a grip GAFers.

 

[JohnDoe]

Think of it like this.

A key that opens many locks is considered a good key. A lock that is opened by many keys is not a good lock.

Determining women's worth by comparing them to objects. I see.

Can someone explain to me the following trend on GAF:

- If, girl, have had sex with plenty of dudes, lets say 50 guys, and had a total amount of sex of 100, how can her "equipment" look/smell different compared to a girl who have had 1 standing guy and a total of sex 100 times?

Get a grip GAFers.

So... what are you trying to say?

 

[Dennis]

Can someone explain to me the following trend on GAF:

- If, girl, have had sex with plenty of dudes, lets say 50 guys, and had a total amount of sex of 100, how can her "equipment" look/smell different compared to a girl who have had 1 standing guy and a total of sex 100 times?

Get a grip GAFers.

For the record, my total amount of sex is over 11000

 

[Vermillion]

Think of it like this.

A key that opens many locks is considered a good key. A lock that is opened by many keys is not a good lock.

OMG, yesssssssss!

I needed to see this in this thread.

Spoiler

Are you being facetious?

 

[JohnDoe]

This "loose vagina" crap people keep talking about is the same as an older myth about women's vaginas. Remember centuries ago when they used to say that learning makes a woman's uterus shrink? It's basically the same. Some stupid myth perpetuated to keep women in their place. Back then, men were afraid women would trump them academically and thus financially, now they are afraid of women more experienced than them because that experience might give her some sort of advantage.

 

[Conciliator]

The number is 682. I did the science.

A key that opens many locks is considered a good key. A lock that is opened by many keys is not a good lock.

Come on people, get the fuck out of here with this BS.

 

[Valnen]

Exactly 436.

 

[Conciliator]

Exactly 436.

You need to check your math. SIX HUNDRED AND EIGHTY-TWO.

 

[Shadybiz]

I usually don't care, really, but...:

Back when I was in college, a friend of mine started seeing this one girl. She was 21 at the time. He told me that she had let him know that she'd been with over 100 guys.

Her reasoning was that she used to live in an area of the country where there wasn't much to do besides have sex. Not sure what kind of reason that is, but anyway, he found out that she was sleeping with 2 other guys while seeing him.

Like I said, I don't usually care, but, that is kind of a lot, I think, for that age anyway.

Spoiler

he got a STD

 

[fanboi]

Determining women's worth by comparing them to objects. I see.



So... what are you trying to say?

I'm saying that people are saying that you can see how many guys a girl has been with on the "equipment", since, I assume, it would be damages due to many different guys.

But if a girl has have only one guy, in a long relationsship, where they have had probobly alot more sex then the girl with 100 different guys, her equipment is like a rose or something.

 

[JohnDoe]

I'm saying that people are saying that you can see how many guys a girl has been with on the "equipment", since, I assume, it would be damages due to many different guys.

But if a girl has have only one guy, in a long relationsship, where they have had probobly alot more sex then the girl with 100 different guys, her equipment is like a rose or something.

OHHH... yeah. In that case I agree with you.

 

[Patrick Bateman]

Woah, well 30+ at 24 would be too much for a girl for me...

If she starts at 16, that may be around 4 each year or 1 every 3 months.
I seriously don't know what to think about that.

Or to describe it a bit more: As long as she pays attention to her health, this means no Hepatitis, HIV, other STD or pregnacies and abortions, what do you want to say about such a girl?

Same thing for guys obviously.

 

[RionaaM]

Can someone explain to me the following trend on GAF:

- If, girl, have had sex with plenty of dudes, lets say 50 guys, and had a total amount of sex of 100, how can her "equipment" look/smell different compared to a girl who have had 1 standing guy and a total of sex 100 times?

Get a grip GAFers.

Because a vagina remembers which dick entered it, so it doesn't dilate as much with a known penis than it does with a stranger one. Yeah, it may sound stupid and seem like nonsense, but it's science.

I know what I'm talking about, I have a lot of theoretical knowledge about it!

 

[Patrick Bateman]

Because a vagina remembers which dick entered it, so it doesn't dilate as much with a known penis than it does with a stranger one. Yeah, it may sound stupid and seem like nonsense, but it's science.

I know what I'm talking about, I have a lot of theoretical knowledge about it!

 

[FyreWulff]

This "loose vagina" crap people keep talking about is the same as an older myth about women's vaginas. Remember centuries ago when they used to say that learning makes a woman's uterus shrink? It's basically the same. Some stupid myth perpetuated to keep women in their place. Back then, men were afraid women would trump them academically and thus financially, now they are afraid of women more experienced than them because that experience might give her some sort of advantage.

The whole thing is basically straight dudes worrying too much about other guy's dicks. Oh no, what if one of the other dicks was better?! I better make sure her dicksperience is pretty low so I have a higher chance of being the best lay!

Communication? Ability and eagerness to learn? Nah, too hard. Sex can only be had for you as long as you have fewer dicks to think about.