Aside from the cost argument (which is really a temporary issue for a potential buyer), it just seems like more of a feel thing to me for you. Jumping from 480p to 720p is a smaller jump than jumping to 1080p on a modern TV set, and many of the remasters being released today also double (or triple...) the game's framerate, which has very real effects on gameplay.
Why not just wait until the price hits a point you are comfortable with? Then you can also wait two years and that should take care of that complaint as well.
This doesn't really seem different to me than the GoTY trend from--well, from like forever-- except now you get technical enhancements as well. I really don't see the issue.
I'm OK with putting PS4 edition on the box. Or even GOTY edition. I also support putting Terminally Fucked on all Vita related materials.
the value thing was created by these same companies last gen. final fantasy x and x-2 are $40, and the not-a-year-old tomb raider was $60 on its lonesome. god of war was $40 when it had two games as part of the package, but the last of us is $50 by itself. at least ubisoft had the good sense to make rayman legends $40 when they ported it to newer systems. i feel like the problem shouldn't be with me when it was these companies who set the precedent with these updates in the first place.
i really think that for me the issue is the name and the lack of backwards compatibility. maybe if there were goty editions coming out for the ps3 as well, or some cross-buy program included (including season passes and dlc and what have you), it would feel less like a shallow money-grab. it's the sort of thing i sincerely push against.
I think the ultimate issue in regards to backwards compatibility is that it generally ends up being too expensive to include in consoles. The whole reason for the switch to x86 was to have a relatively stable hardware configuration that is able to allow for the next generation PlayStation and Xbox to play PS4 and XB1 games respectfully since x86 is what PCs use... This is assuming consoles don't switch to ARM in the next generation. I would love to see emulation of PS1 & PS2 games in both physical and digital forms though to show that Sony is still interested in it, but had problems with PS3 specifically.
and i have zero reason to trust these companies that backwards compatibility will be a thing in the future if the standard console model exists. there has been no indication to me that hardware manufacturers are loyal to a specific hardware configuration.