I didn't actually mean you were stupid. Just trying to say that he made an assumption just like you.
But I do agree with you, to an extent. It was stupid what I did, and I don't think anyone should try what I did. What I'm saying is that, not every kid went through what happened to me. But I agree that it just happens, and you learn/grow from it.
I have, and one way of learning/growing from it is to look back and laugh!