well why don't you fuck him then? :lol i can understand you're a fan, i am a major wolverine fan too. but once you get past all the awesomeness that is Wolverine, none of that makes him any good at relationships. He's excitement and fireworks and coolness, and yes he's been through all kinds of stuff, but that doesn't make him a great character for a love story. He's best avenging the death of his beloved, not sitting on the porch, smoking a pipe, surrounded by his big family. He's always been a better tragic hero, the classic warrior, with more reason to fight than not. That's the way he was created, and seeing him with Jean, not going through ordeal after ordeal, battles and wars and blood and guts, doesn't fit. They would be a great fling. But not a good lasting thing. I said boring lay mainly for humor, but he's better with an exotic indian princess, or a samurai maiden, than he is with Jean. If they didn't write in her penchant for badboys, there would be nothing there at all. Warriors on never ending journeys don't settle down with their redhead lovergirls. They settle until she dies in a random ninja battle, then he's on the road again, balance restored. He probably should only date superpowered women though, because normals seem to have a really low life expectancy when hanging around him.
(disclaimer. I never read the Ultimate X-books.(don't give a fuuuuuck) My comments are only going by Real X-continuity.)