Zog
Banned
I see, so you are both holding yourselves to these responsibilities with no pressure from the other?
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Streamer mistreats his wife and his son while streaming live.
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I see, so you are both holding yourselves to these responsibilities with no pressure from the other?
Hendrick's
If only my penis was as big as my GamerScore!
I came from much worse, but if anything, it taught me what not to do.
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nkarafo
Member
agreed.
Gavin Stevens
Formerly 'o'dium'
Oh and, as a person who lived with a father who was abusive back in the 90s when it was all the rage and nobody gave a shit, I had to watch him throw boiling hot cups of drink in my mums face, or threw a damn chair at her head. I was around it a LONG time before we BOTH got out. I can say that guys like this aren’t worth a damn... My dad dint MEAN to do it. He actually had an accident which nearly Killed him And made him violent. But it showed me just what a man doesn’t do. Use your fists for them when it comes down to the wire... but not on them.
But I can also say I’ve been with women who have pushed me to the point I wish I had a damn chair handy. The kind that come up to your face and scream in it then start slapping and scratching, egging you on to “be a man” and put them in their place.
Difference is, the second you lose your cool, you’re no longer the man... your a coward who just lost the high ground. No missing limbs and charred face though, just a normal coward.
But I can also say I’ve been with women who have pushed me to the point I wish I had a damn chair handy. The kind that come up to your face and scream in it then start slapping and scratching, egging you on to “be a man” and put them in their place.
Difference is, the second you lose your cool, you’re no longer the man... your a coward who just lost the high ground. No missing limbs and charred face though, just a normal coward.
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Whataboutisms don't excuse domestic violence. Whatever a "soy boy" is to you it has nothing to do with a husband beating up his wife in front of their children. Take these opinions to a dumpster and burn 'em please.
Reizo Ryuu
Gold Member
Please don't send me a message I can't reply to, especially if it's not something I even said.
If you want to have a discussion, post in the topic.
If you want to have a discussion, post in the topic.
RedVIper
Banned
But no one here is defending him...everyone agrees he's an asshole. Some people just pointed out that she's acting childish aswell. That doesn't mean what he did was justified in any way.
BANGS
Banned
While this comment was better explained later we don't know the full details yet and calling someone who is a victim a "bitch" and deserving of violence isn't acceptable at all especially since we don't have all the detai. We're issuing a warning for now.
I mean yeah the guy is clearly a piece of human garbage but i'm not going to pretend for a second the bitch didn't have it coming... They're both perfect for walmart...
Racer!
Member
That goes for that hysterical physically abusing woman also. Based on video evidence, both were wrong.
Musky_Cheese
Banned
Gormenghast
Member
Oh look, a generalization and labeling. How unusual.
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Racer!
Member
This. The kids are the real victims here.
Redneckerz
Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
I have to note that a lot of users in here are trying to look for an ahah! moment to the other side and i don't think it brings any fruitful discussion.
To that extent,
JareBear: Remastered
are you willing to address my response to your comment? I heavily get the impression you read something into it that was not there and asked a question i considered unfaithful. Care to explain this matter? Am i wrong? I wanna hear it. 
Simply_Bry
Member
llien
Member
Are you asking whether our moms would attack dads and dads would respond with violence?
Well, in my case no. never in my life had I seen seen my parents physically attack each other, although heated arguments were not that uncommon, neither of them had crossed the line.
They did smack me on my ass and at times quite painfully though, for misbehaving, although, given I cannot remember a single case of what it was about, it was obviously pretty ineffective way of disciplining me.
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Racer!
Member
This is what ideally should be done. But when shit is loose, you have to judge equal.
He beat his pregnant wife and you're going to "both sides are the same" it? Stay classy.
Zog
Banned
Call? The police?
Reizo Ryuu
Gold Member
Calm down judge dredd.
Tapioca
Banned
IDK what that means.
llien
Member
Another real world story:
Joseph Dredd is a law enforcement and judicial officer in the dystopian future city of Mega-City One, which covers most of the east coast of North America. He is a "street judge", empowered to summarily arrest, convict, sentence, and execute criminals.
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Zog
Banned
If we can assume his actions will only get worse over time then can also assume that her actions will too and that she will begin throwing more dangerous things at him?
Musky_Cheese
Banned
Zog
Banned
If you lost your temper and tried to hit her, would she be justified in calling the police?
Northeastmonk
Gold Member
This has given me a horrible feeling today. The best reaction is to walk away. Go outside, go to a friends house, go for a drive, just get away. The worst part about arguments is staying in the same place.
Racer!
Member
Its just as much on her to not start a physical confrontation with a baby in the belly. When you attack someone that has consequences, that MIGHT escalate. What adult dont know this?! Whats this shit with not holding her accountable for her actions. And for the record. NO he should not have slapped her. But they both carry equal responsibility.
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So she deserved this? She brought a beating onto herself?
Tapioca
Banned
Throwing light things at someone is not comparable to slapping/hitting them. If he threw a piece of cardboard back at her I really wouldn't care.
Also, she is pregnant so hitting her is endangering the health of his future child. There is also a child in the background begging HIM to stop hitting his mother. If he does all this while streaming imagine what he does while not streaming. He thinks nothing of physically and verbally abusing his wife for the whole world to see. He is a danger to the children and is a horrible dad.
Anyone defending this because of some sexism war on the internet is just pathetic. Get a grip.
Musky_Cheese
Banned
Racer!
Member
When you attack someone physically, you should expect a retaliation. Not hard to understand really, if you believe men and woman are equal that is. Ideally it should not have happened. But we are not living in the Disney world 90% of the posters here believe.
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Zog
Banned
Love the open sexism. Keep it coming.
IncognitoPanda
Member
She did something bad, he did something worse. One's action does not justify the other's. No need to make completely black and white.
I've seen someone here defending the man saying she verbally abused him. Being annoying or nagging does not justify violence. Only a threat of violence can ever justify violence.
The only crime she commited was throwing stuff at him. He beat her for that and came back for seconds. He obviously has a pattern of misbehaviour.
That child is gonna need a go fund me page. Poor, poor girl..
I've seen someone here defending the man saying she verbally abused him. Being annoying or nagging does not justify violence. Only a threat of violence can ever justify violence.
The only crime she commited was throwing stuff at him. He beat her for that and came back for seconds. He obviously has a pattern of misbehaviour.
That child is gonna need a go fund me page. Poor, poor girl..
Zog
Banned
You didn't answer my question.
If we assume that his actions will result in more of the same (but worse) in future then we can also assume the same of her actions. Maybe next time she will throw a glass, a lamp, a chair and eventually a knife.
You see, you can't just assume the worst from the male and the best from the female.
Nemissa.Summoner
Banned
ResurrectedContrarian
Suffers with mild autism
I don't know why I clicked on that, the sound alone was disturbing and I only made it about 30 seconds in. I feel sorry for all of them. Hope their situation improves.
Racer!
Member
Kind word for physically attack someone sitting down? What?
Racer!
Member
+10000000
PumpkinPie
Banned
Zog
Banned
captainraincoat
Banned
Life lesson....never hit a woman.
Some women may annoy the absolute shit out of you but it's still no grounds to hit them.
Some women may annoy the absolute shit out of you but it's still no grounds to hit them.
Racer!
Member
Fixed. Allowed myself to remove the sexism. Doesnt belong in 2018.
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Nemissa.Summoner
Banned
Like... At least she didn't have a miscarriage? Maybe?
Golgo 13
The Man With The Golden Dong
What the fuck are you talking about? I said I think it’s horrible. She should leave immediately and dude needs help. But just because it happened on a gaming stream doesn’t mean this is the first time this has happened, it’s just eye opening how shocked the video game world is at this — it’s almost like they live in a bubble. OMG!
mekes
Member
I see a selfish boy with a mans responsibilities. If you have to put hands on your partner, it’s over. You aren’t responsible enough for an adult relationship, let alone children.
I might be seeing things that aren’t there but I see a boy who values earning a few pennies trying to make it streaming over spending time with his family. If my girlfriend cooked dinner for me, I’d be there as soon as I could because it’s the decent thing to do. I wouldn’t leave it for an hour and have her wonder why she even bothers. I imagine her attitude stems from the fact that he probably lives at a PC monitor rather than contributing any time to his family and household responsibities.
But no bro. Play your Fortnite, ignore your responsibilies, push your family away and put hands on your partner when she gets fed up.
I might be seeing things that aren’t there but I see a boy who values earning a few pennies trying to make it streaming over spending time with his family. If my girlfriend cooked dinner for me, I’d be there as soon as I could because it’s the decent thing to do. I wouldn’t leave it for an hour and have her wonder why she even bothers. I imagine her attitude stems from the fact that he probably lives at a PC monitor rather than contributing any time to his family and household responsibities.
But no bro. Play your Fortnite, ignore your responsibilies, push your family away and put hands on your partner when she gets fed up.
Racer!
Member
Sigh.
Reizo Ryuu
Gold Member
He never blamed only the woman. What the fuck is wrong with you? Do y'all get joy out of constructing non-existing narratives?
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LegendOfKage
Member
I'm not married, but if if my wife ever threw cardboard at me, and screamed at me to stop playing a video game, and knocked over my webcam, I don't think she'd carry equal responsibility if I physically assaulted her for doing so, which I would never do in the first place.
If someone slaps you and in return you grab a knife and stab them, you don't both carry equal responsibility for the stabbing. It might be their fault for getting slapped back, but any escalated level force is on the person who used more force. I think that seems obvious. What you're suggesting instead doesn't seem to be a sound argument.