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a child left behind
Honestly, I would just say to not put SO much effort into it. Look at it as simply something to do. Don't put more effort into if things don't work out you will beat yourself up for. Realize that these women aren't going to put effort into it simply because they're most likely being bombarded on these sites from men in general. Until they get to know you, you're just one of the many. If they're not going to put so much effort, why are you?
Obviously when you meet someone and actually begin a relationship then you can put effort but don't go wasting your time, energy, and focus on a person that you most likely will never speak to again.
That's my problem I set high expectations, and have to realize that I'm not the only person out there trying to win over a woman's heart. Also most women don't put a lot of effort they usually send out short text messages, or refuse to talk on the phone. It took 4 times but I'm learning.
Don't sweat it man. You say you put effort in but do you see the female putting effort in as well? Don't make it seem like your desperate to hang out/see the female at first.
Yea I probably should be more relaxed. But I've never seen myself as a clingy type though.
Basically we met up at a store parking lot. Asked her if anything was wrong because she told me she was running late. This store had 30 min parking rules so I wanted to play it safe and not get towed, so we agreed to go down the block to park. Once we went in our cars I get these 2 bullshit text about her mother and thats about it.Do you want to run through what happened in those 5 minutes? If you get to an actual date, they're at least interested, and going through what happened might help to ensure you keep their interest running next time
And for online dating, 4 rejections in 1.5 years isn't too bad!