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Anita Sarkeesian: 'What I Couldn't Say'

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scitek

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That doesn't work though.

That has never worked.

It's the conundrum of how to actively combat online harassment. Most of the people who are posting in those comments know what they're doing and don't care that they're being toxic.

They do it to elicit a reaction.
 

VARIA

Member
I say people need to be held responsible for what they say. NeoGAF for example has mod team that will ban us if we get too out of line/hand. YouTube and Twitter has no such system.

I totally agree with this. These companies need to invest in proper moderation.
 

oni-link

Member
Avoid the comments guys...

Wow, when I made the thread I did so without even looking at the videos comments

YouTube comments are always so awful I'm at the point now where i've forgotten they exist because it's been so long since i've looked at any

I guess it was an oversight on the channels part leaving them on, the channel is really good for interesting debates and lectures btw

Anyway, from a personal level going though what she's had to go though would kill me, all this just to have a debate about an issue in video games
 
To be honest it's the state of the human condition. 75+% of humans are human garbage.

We stopped evolving and this is what we're stuck with.

That's such a negative way of looking at things. It's important to keep things in perspective - the problem with the Internet is that the loudest voices are the ones you hear, but the vast majority of people are good. Look at PAX and GDC - I didn't get to attend either this year, but I know that it was a breath of fresh air and a reassurance that our hobby is a welcoming place.
 
I won't lie. I disagree with a number of her points. No, I really do. I truly, honestly, and in every way don't care one bit about rescuing Peach for the thousandth time or bikini armor in serious games. However she has every right to share her beliefs. She, and I'm assuming most of the people here, live in a place where we are allowed to speak up against things that are or are perceived as wrong, dangerous, what have you. This of course does extend to people on the other side of Anita, but they could really stand to be civil if they want to be taken seriously and not completely reviled. I wish people would stop treating this like a full scale war and more like a civil debate that it could be. Of course there are civil and uncivil people on both sides, but yeah.
 

HK-47

Oh, bitch bitch bitch.
something relevant to the current state of our community.

I think fixing the toxicity in our community will require us to change how we use the Internet. Anonymity is a blessing and a curse, and one way or another, we are going to have to choose.

Interesting and maddening. Mostly because its hard to say outside, especially when you care about the issue but dont want to end up in the pointless circlejerk totem creation he describes.
 

foltzie1

Member
I agree. Im at this point.

It frankly wears thin to hear nasty criticisms for what amounts to Soc101 level analysis of video games and feminism.

She has my support.

She has my support too. Her message is going to lead to better games for all.

+1 more.

It's really disappointing to see it's gotten to this point, but here we are. I assume these are mostly Millennials behaving this way. My disappointment continues to grow. I really expected a bit more from this generation in terms of race, gender and sexual orientation progress. What I see on display is all too often what I'd expect to hear, read and see from those 30 years their elders. The opinions these people are expressing is what they really think.

and my AX!

Wait we're not quoiting FotR.

Tangential question, which one of the poor new mods gets Anita thread duty?
 

Aesnath

Member
hooolly shit why were the YT comments not disabled.

but, yeah, I love this woman.

Yeah, I agree with this.

I hate that simply trying to open the subject of how our hobby views women has resulted in such a hateful reaction. The discussion should be important to everyone, regardless of where they sit.

I guess I'm biased 'cause I'm an SJW...
 

Vlade

Member
Uh no. This is the internet enabling morons to act like assholes. This is not new, it's not unique to gaming, and this is not meaningfully generated by the media they consumed.

What is true is that the subculture around our hobby harbored and excused this for MUCH longer than would be expected. It is an important and real consideration and one of many reasons harassment should not be excused as "lol, internet, it happens"
 

autoduelist

Member
"That's just society" is such a bullshit and lazy response to stuff like this, I don't even know why people bother to type it out. In the real world if you went out and said even half the shit I read in comments people would think you were part of Westboro or something.

You're absolutely correct that the comments and other stuff are reprehensible.

You're absolutely correct that if people acted like this in 'real life' they'd be shunned, if not punched in the nose.

Where you're wrong is linking it to gaming. Go to the comment section on youtube for anything -- beatboxing, dancing, music, 'challenges', etc... and you'll see the same exact behavior.

Go to ANY political article ever and read the comment section and you will find the most vile, disgusting, reprehensible comments ever -- ones that will give these a run for their money because some of them are clearly serious and not arguably trolling. Articles on shootings, robberies, or the weather -- anything that has any political connotations, will be full of racial/ethic/gender based slurs thicker than you can believe.

The internet is anonymous and we've learned anonymity breeds toxicity. Even when not 'anonymous' (such as facebook login required) you'll see people making horrific comments on various topics -- at least, I'd hope they didn't say those things out loud. This is a problem with humanity, and our society, not specifically with gaming. It's not a 'bullshit' and 'lazy' response to point this out --- if anything it's lazy to attribute it to 'gamers' when it's a widespread epidemic online in most forums/comment sections.

I am not defending a single person posting that toxicity. It's foul and disgusting and makes the world a worse place. I don't understand why people feel the need to poke hate at people, or make death threats, or anything else. But as long as people keep pointing the finger at a specific subgroup (in this case, gamers) rather than study the issue as a whole, it causes unnecessary pushback as all the normal, sane individuals in said subgroup will feel attacked as well, which you see in every single thread like this. We do not pretend that vile racism and sexism is an issue for 'people into politics' even though political comment sections are thick with it... we understand it's a bigger issue, and this is an extremely deep rooted issue. It's either a flaw in our society, or humanity in general. It's foul and toxic. But it is not, sadly, limited to one tiny demographic no matter how much we may hope it was.

Also of note, any 'hot button' issue like this will pull people out of the woodwork who don't care what the topic is, but just want to agitate people. If people were bent out of shape in a cookie forum, they'd be there hurling insults. Assuming everyone saying everything is part of the actual demographic is flawed as well... this kind of thing brings out the worst in the worst people.
 

Flavius

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I don't even know if anonymity is really the problem anymore. Devin Faraci (editor in-chief of Badass Digest) said on twitter that a majority of negative comments are left on Facebook by people using real names and pictures. At the end of day Anita Sarkeesian can survive in the real world even getting all sorts of death threats and being constantly harrassed (still bad things to do btw) and the losers egging her on can't.

I agree. It isn't necessarily the anonymity. Moreso, it's the immediacy. Posting in an asynchronous environment is akin to utilizing a weaponized satellite to fire a spitball at someone's head from half a world away.
 
Would be nice if people are rational about things.
Lots of people need anger management.
Some serious therapy is long overdue for some.
I won't lie. I disagree with a number of her points. No, I really do. I truly, honestly, and in every way don't care one bit about rescuing Peach for the thousandth time or bikini armor in serious games. However she has every right to share her beliefs. She, and I'm assuming most of the people here, live in a place where we are allowed to speak up against things that are or are perceived as wrong, dangerous, what have you. This of course does extend to people on the other side of Anita, but they could really stand to be civil if they want to be taken seriously and not completely reviled. I wish people would stop treating this like a full scale war and more like a civil debate that it could be. Of course there are civil and uncivil people on both sides, but yeah.

You are over thinking this. Your against harassment right? Then that's it. Doesn't matter what your opinions on her are but at least help stop harassment.
 

Kai Dracon

Writing a dinosaur space opera symphony
The kind of people who make up Gamergate and "boy's club" or "frat guy" gaming almost certainly have more issues contributing to their attitudes than just the games they play. But for a long time now the media they consume has bent over backwards to exploit and pander to them.

This stuff is an internet issue, and a cultural issue, because there are many factors contributing to the nature of a whole generation of hostile, angry young people. It is also a gaming issue because so much of the games industry decided the way forward for profit and expansion was to target a particular audience and damn the consequences.

something relevant to the current state of our community.

I think fixing the toxicity in our community will require us to change how we use the Internet. Anonymity is a blessing and a curse, and one way or another, we are going to have to choose.

That is an excellent video, and probably should be in the orientation kit for using the internet.

To a degree, the problem isn't anonymity, but separation from consequences. Or the perception of it. Plenty of people involved with Gamergate, for example, proudly declare who and what they are. Or they don't bother going through much trouble to hide their legal identity to anyone who really cares. Though it has been said that there is a difference between anonymity and pseudonymity. Control over what part of one's identity to display to the world is a crucial tool and taking it away would result in great collateral damage and further repression for many persons.
 

Crayon

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Anita is a hero. Moreso every day that she stands up to this.

Shame on anyone who thinks her experience is somehow proportianal, fair, expected, or deserved with regards to her public facing work.
 

Oersted

Member

The story goes longer than this, thats why I only posted the link. In other words, read dude.

Those who oppose Gamergate, however, have publicly lambasted the video, accusing Carrera of exploiting the adult performer’s personal tragedy for the benefit of the Gamergate movement. On Monday afternoon, shortly after Carrera’s vlog post went viral on Reddit, Daily Beast blogger and Gamergate critic Arthur Chu tweeted the following:

Many of the women who’ve spoken out against Gamergate have faced abuse, constant harassment on social media, and death threats. Sarkeesian, who is mentioned in Carrera’s video as an example of a “false faux victim,” has had to cancel personal appearances after receiving death threats, and game developer Briana Wu, a vocal Gamergate critic, had to flee her house for the same reason.

That Gamergaters use this abuse rather to attack feminists and other victims of abuse, instead of the guys who did it and the culture which contributed to it, says enough.
 
I wish people would stop treating this like a full scale war and more like a civil debate that it could be. Of course there are civil and uncivil people on both sides, but yeah.
I am right in the middle with I am cool with change, but have no issues with games falling into stereotypes as well..
So I feel like I have no real say in the manner. The reason Peach annoys me because the RPG games did her better.
 

Overside

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Did your generation literally grew up on the internet like currently MY generation? That whole what they games they play bit is completely irrelevant.

No, its not, these games were designed to appeal to, bring in, and monetize those kinds of people.

To, and again, I roughly quote 'Carefully cultivate and profit off their sense of entitlement'.
 
Why do so many people think threatening to murder someone you disagree with is okay? And then they don't get the irony of calling her a feminazi afterwards?
 
I look at these comments on Youtube and it makes me wonder who are these people? How they can possible exist, and how can they interact with people in real world? Living in western society with mindset like that? Some of them probably have a social life, maybe they even intreact with women. How can they possible don't see what's wrong with their mind.
 

sensui-tomo

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I look at these comments on Youtube and it makes me wonder who are these people? How they can possible exist, and how can they interact with people in real world? Living in western society with mindset like that? Some of them probably have a social life, maybe they even intreact with women. How can they possible don't see what's wrong with their mind.

Its like twitter, as in " you'd never understand why you were friends with that person once you saw their social media accounts" People will act different behind closed doors, the only way i can see this diminishing is like what someone said a few pages back, getting rid of anonymity, which wont happen, and I fear that would actually cause more issues before the transition would happen.
 
To be honest it's the state of the human condition. 75+% of humans are human garbage.

We stopped evolving and this is what we're stuck with.

I can get pretty down on the human race, but I've since realized that this viewpoint is too narrow. I hate generalizations because they are most often applied to a stereotype (which may or may not be accurate) or a small group of people (see: vocal minority).

All of the reasonable people are busy dealing with the stress of their own lives that they do not the time nor the inclination to spout vitriol over the internet to a bunch of strangers. It is my belief that this kind of person far outnumbers the isolated, borderline psychopaths that are willing to call in a bomb threat or get your personal info and issue death threats.

The crazed get all of the attention, and I wish this was not the case.
 
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Deleted member 20920

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The story goes longer than this, thats why I only posted the link. In other words, read dude.

That Gamergaters use this abuse rather to attack feminists and other victims of abuse, instead of the guys who did it and the culture which contributed to it, says enough.

Yeah, she didn't have to talk about other feminists and what they're not doing bit rather should have focused on why thos porn actress needed help and how people could help her and victims like her.
 
I'm in awe at her courage. It's remarkable the amount of bile she's able to take. Doesn't excuse one iota of it of course.

She, and her contemporaries, will eventually lead to a better industry and hopefully one that I'm always proud of, rather than sometimes ashamed of.
 
I look at these comments on Youtube and it makes me wonder who are these people? How they can possible exist, and how can they interact with people in real world? Living in western society with mindset like that? Some of them probably have a social life, maybe they even intreact with women. How can they possible don't see what's wrong with their mind.

I reconcile my thoughts with the idea that the majority of those posters are juvenile teens/manchildren/womenchildren who wear one face online and wear another in real life.

I can get pretty down on the human race, but I've since realized that this viewpoint is too narrow. I hate generalizations because they are most often applied to a stereotype (which may or may not be accurate) or a small group of people (see: vocal minority).

All of the reasonable people are busy dealing with the stress of their own lives that they do not the time nor the inclination to spout vitriol over the internet to a bunch of strangers. It is my belief that this kind of person far outnumbers the isolated, borderline psychopaths that are willing to call in a bomb threat or get your personal info and issue death threats.

The crazed get all of the attention, and I wish this was not the case.

I dunno, there are plenty of Gaffers who browse during their office hours.

I'm guilty of it.
 
I look at these comments on Youtube and it makes me wonder who are these people? How they can possible exist, and how can they interact with people in real world? Living in western society with mindset like that? Some of them probably have a social life, maybe they even intreact with women. How can they possible don't see what's wrong with their mind.
They probably only act that way on the internet. I bet none of these pukes have the balls to talk the way they do in real life. Everyones a tough guy hiding behind internet anonymity.
 

explodet

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Basically to all the people who've harassed her

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Here's one more closely related to the subject matter.

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injurai

Banned
I don't think she is a philosophical beacon, she's made mistakes in her points. But it's incredible that people aren't okay with her being wrong. She's working to solve problems that exist, and don't disappear just because someone get's some nuance wrong. They had to tear her down and make an example of her, instead of joining the debate and progressing things together alongside Sarkeesian. I think this is the big distinguisher. Some people just want to have enemies. They feel she is so incredibly in the wrong to offend them by her words, that they don't even realize they do her much worse.
 
Please read the post I responded to.
Did you?
Because "It's convenient that if you need any proof that she's not just making up all the shit she gets, all you need to do is scroll down to the comments section." doesn't necessarily mean everything in that "shit" is a federal offense, just that there's too much shit directly hurled at her, not on a remote part of the Internet she might not read.
 

Freshmaker

I am Korean.
What is true is that the subculture around our hobby harbored and excused this for MUCH longer than would be expected. It is an important and real consideration and one of many reasons harassment should not be excused as "lol, internet, it happens"

I think it's more important to examine the underlying causes of human motivation driving stuff like this rather than merely try to suppress people from expressing unfavorable opinions. They don't really go away.

Complaining about the media is asking for a band-aid.
 

enzo_gt

tagged by Blackace
Powerful. A lot of what she said goes beyond just gaming and speaks towards the female experience in society too IMO. Well.. it is really an extension of the historical silencing of female perspectives.
 

chico

Member
victim? haha. she makes money out of it. without all those stupid haters she wouldnt be famous. thats why she cant stop talking about it.
 
victim? haha. she makes money out of it. without all those stupid haters she wouldnt be famous. thats why she cant stop talking about it.

Quoting so this isn't overlooked.

See ya. Death threats and harassment aren't moneymakers. Should probably work on that cause and effect chain.
 

Vlade

Member
I think it's more important to examine the underlying causes of human motivation driving stuff like this rather than merely try to suppress people from expressing unfavorable opinions. They don't really go away.

Complaining about the media is asking for a band-aid.

I'm confused. you wish people would stop trying to silence Anita with harassment?

My suggestion is to get to the root cause as it relates to gaming culture. When online, don't act as if saying stupid shit is ok. report abusive behavior. leave the game. w/e. don't act like its normal or ok.
 
I wish I'd known that this was on, definitely would have tried to attend. I'm glad that Anita appears to be enjoying her time in Australia, hope she gets to take some time out and get a photo with a koala or something.
 
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