Let's not count the best AAA exclusives out there and the only console with VR. In the case of VR you cannot even watch it on youtube, like the other games.
Nintendo easily has the best exclusives, but I'll concede on the VR thing. I love VR, and only Sony is doing it. It's really amazing, though, that Sony has made no way to actually watch VR videos on the PS4 except through a third party app which is now requiring a subscription. Sony's media app, despite having a VR mode, does not actually do VR movies.
It's so funny to say that Sony is censoring or vetoing asian developers when it is by far the console with more games of those regions.
Past tense, maybe. Most Japanese developers are targeting the Switch now, with a lot of previously exclusive games being multiplatform on the Switch, but because it takes a year or longer for releases to make it out here, we haven't fully felt the effects of this. I think most Japanese releases these days is multiplat with the Switch. Fate/EXTELLA Link, Tales of Vesperia, My Hero Academia, Valkyria Chronicles 4, and so on.
I think Gun Gun Pixies was ported to the Switch and PC just so they could release it here. It was previously a Vita exclusive, but PQube (who are releasing the game here) got burned pretty god damned hard on Omega Labyrinth (Sony refused to allow it, just weeks before release). Similarly, Moero Chronicle just had a Switch version announced (it was previously a Vita/PC game that came out here as a PC game only) and a US released was announced almost simultaneously. Japanese developers - particularly of the fanservice variety - are abandoning Sony.
If I buy a Playstation console is for having great games that I cannot play elsewhere. All the other stuff you mention amounts zero to nothing in most people's minds.
Fair enough. Personally, the Playstation is making great games less great, so when given the option, I'm buying them somewhere else that respects the wishes of the game creators. I've never been a fan of middle management taking creative control from the talent.