i'm confident of it.
i think i'll leave the thread because my sexual preferences prejudices are clearly eliciting a negative emotional reaction.
Fixed
People aren't always rational. Seems like if they were going to write someone off over that then it's only a matter of time.
My thoughts are that it might be prudent to drop strong hints on the first date to see if they're open minded enough for a second. Otherwise it's harder to predict what will happen when the full story comes out. It could be unpleasant for both parties. The longer it takes the stronger the reaction will be.
If there's no first date then safety should be the primary concern. No harm no foul.
I'm REALLY curious to what would be a strong hint.
"Hey .. lets talk about football!!" ? hehe xD
That's the part that people call a "trap".
It matters, even in a one night stand.
You had sex with a women and she will not get pregnant.
End of the story, there is no trap ... you can even say that because of the chance of a cis girl being pregnant in a one night stand, THE CIS GIRLS are the real traps =P
you're really reaching with this one.
Most reasons presented here are because heterosexual males don't accept transgender women as females ... and only like 2 people said the main reason being infertility, wich is the only non prejudice choice.
But to hold back information about being transgendered isn't fair to a straight man, because many men don't see a transgender woman as a woman. If they wanted to be with a trans woman, they would seek that specifically.
That is victim blaming.
If a men don't see transgender women as woman, the problem is THEIRS for going against every antropologic, psyquiatric, neurological and scientific reason to believe otherwise
That's fair. But then we can't really blame a non-trans person if they would prefer to know. Everyone has a preference.
Yes you can.
Extreme example ... but imagine if this thread was about internet dating :
"But then we can't really blame a non-black person if they would prefer to know. Everyone has a preference."
edit :
Bottomline is, I do not wish to engage in any intimate activities with trans-women; indistinguishable from cis-women or not.
Wich means that you are so secure of your heterosexuality that you have alergy to the Y cromossome ?
which spanish show was it? i would like to see how attractive she is.
Not sure about the spanish, but a similar problem happened on this in the UK with a program called
There is Something About Miriam
The network received legal action from the people to stop the show from even airing ... and there was NO SEX involved.
If you are curious :