I'm thinking about starting to read spiderman. I'm not quite sure where to start, maybe find some list of important story arcs and TPBs and get those, I read x men in chronological order and I skipped shitload of it, pretty much passed everything pre late 90s because didn't like art style or writing, but not sure what's the best way for spidey.
Any advice? Any website which can get me started with names, list or something?
Your best bet is to start with the current run which began in Spider-man: Big time, it's nearest easy jumping on point. Everything since then has all been building towards issue #700
Spider-Man: Big Time collects #648-#651
Spider-Man: Matters of Life and Death collects #652-#654, #654.1, and #655-#657
Spider-Man: The Fantastic Spider-Man collects #658-#660
Spider-Man: The Return of Anti-Venom collects #663-#665, plus backups from #660 and #662-#665
Amazing Spider-Man: Spider-Island: Infested collects backups from #660 and #662-#665
Spider-Man: Spider-Island collects #666-#673 and backups from #660 and #662-#665
Spider-Man: Flying Blind collects #674-#676
Spider-Man: Trouble on the Horizon collects #678-#681 and #679.1