So I'm supposed to pretend that out of all the beautiful women in the world have zero effect on my penis all of a sudden? That's not how it works.Seriously DY. If you have a gf don't you want to just sex her? I like porn like any other guy but it drops to zero when I have a gf. Not some mushy shit either I just think about smashing it.
Can't tell if you're talking about porn here or just smanging other people on the side.So I'm supposed to pretend that out of all the beautiful women in the world have zero effect on my penis all of a sudden? That's not how it works.
Once I'm in a relationship, I don't sign my orgasms off to her alone. Hell, the thought of one single entity controlling all of MY sexual urges is fucking absurd and terrifying to me. I don't even see a point in getting in any kind of closed relationship primarily for sex. Its asking to be put on a leash - to be dependent like that.
Are you one of those people that think that porn/masturbation=cheating on your SO=checking out other people while out with your SO?Can't tell if you're talking about porn here or just smanging other people on the side.
Are you one of those people that think that porn/masturbation=cheating on your SO=checking out other people while out with your SO?
Because there is some pretty significant space in between each one of those things.
lol No. Does anyone actually think this anymore? Seems like a high school thing. Even if a girl isn't comfortable with that, it's not even in the same ballpark as actually cheating. In any way.Are you one of those people that think that porn/masturbation=cheating on your SO=checking out other people while out with your SO?
Because there is some pretty significant space in between each one of those things.
what do you do if your girlfriend gets jealous or something because you watch porn ?
Then how did you get to that from my post?lol No. Does anyone actually think this anymore? Seems like a high school thing. Even if a girl isn't comfortable with that, it's not even in the same ballpark as actually cheating. In any way.
I didn't, was just saying how your post could be interpreted as advocating 'open relationships' and whatnot.Then how did you get to that from my post?
Agreed with all that, for sure. But where does watching porn fit into that?On top of that, if you don't understand yourself sexually - and how you change in this area over time - then you're doing your SO a disservice as well as yourself. If you can't identify what hits your buttons then how can you let them know over any period of time? Just make it up as you go? Hope for fireworks from the start? It doesn't work like that. It leads to confusion, dependency, mixed signals, and generally just things going wrong that don't have to. When they want to please you and you don't know how to tell them how you roll dice.
Its definitely not the only way wtfI didn't, was just saying how your post could be interpreted as advocating 'open relationships' and whatnot.
Agreed with all that, for sure. But where does watching porn fit into that?(I'd rather experiment together in a clear relationship than experiment on myself because i'm not getting off enough with them.)
Are you saying the only way to understand yourself sexually and what pushes your buttons, is by masturbating to porn on your own? Or am I misunderstanding your point.
By not having an SO.
Porn can be used to help you understand yourself more, sure. But let's keep it real, to think that's what most guys use it for (rather than just 'busting a nut') is wishful thinking.You make it sound like there's full blown porn addiction and nothing at all as the only options in this. Porn is one way. A much safer way than figuring it out on the go with people that are actually considering investing in you whilst you're figuring out that missionary has nothing to do with a piledriver and that maybe some people get weirded out by eye contact while getting head. Do you like a loose grip on yourself or an irongrasp. Are you a naturally submissive person? What do you consider "too messy?" Do you like carefree, casual stuff or are you addicted to creating a scene every time you have sex? Do you like/need/hate dirty talk? What are your boundaries? What are your boundaries with this type of person? Some (many) need the visual aid to get to these ideas before the situations actually occur. Almost all of it can be found in porn.
And it happens to be entertaining.
There's a lot more to this than busting a nut outside of your assigned vagina.
Why do you read every post and come to a black/white conclusion? From this page to the last its just jarring.
Porn can be used to help you understand yourself more, sure. But let's keep it real, to think that's what most guys use it for (rather than just 'busting a nut') is wishful thinking.
Sex is a two way street so this 'porn can be like self-help' angle of self-discovery doesn't really apply that well imo. I've found out many times that I actually like certain things that I didn't in porn, and vice versa. It's not really the best rule of thumb to think its safer to discover more about yourself and how to interact with a partner, by not interacting with a partner.
Porn can only go so far to let you know what pushes your buttons, but I do get the specific use-case you're describing. Either way the point comes back to masturbation, which is different from exploring porn to better your relationship. In any case there shouldn't be any judgment from either side about watching porn.
PS. "maybe people don't want to wait around for you to figure it out." I didn't realize enjoying sex was a formula you have to get down for yourself. :lol Your groundhog edit is a bit contradictory, no?
"Listen... I've been beating the shit out of my penis for years before I met you. Jerking it to porn is just between me, God, and my ISP."
I watch it when shes not around.
Almost five Mandingo.Don't u have like a 2 inch dick?
:lol
Darksol said:I work in a sex shop and I don't need to hide porn from my SO--we watch it together
Don't u have like a 2 inch dick?
:lol
That doesn't matter tho. Size doesn't matter.. Girls get more pleasure from oral sex. And I'm fucking amazon at that.
Joke character confirmed?
Because half your own posts are tryhard tales attempting to prove to GAF you're not really baby Simba in a lion suit.
Almost five Mandingo.
I just play it up for laughs. Kind of like you in reverse.
That's cool. What's the ratio of couples coming in vs people by themselves?
Joke character confirmed?
Because half your own posts are tryhard tales attempting to prove to GAF you're not really baby Simba in a lion suit.
That gif is awesome.That girl was like "is it in yet??" Omg....wow :lol
That girl was like "is it in yet??" Omg....wow :lol
It was a good thread.We had a thread a few months ago. Gaffers were using oral skills to excuse their nubs.
This reminds me of a dude I once met who claimed he never jerked off because he was hooking up with so many women from craigslist. Bullshit. Every man wanks unless he has a serious medical issue preventing it.
We watch together. There is no issue.