If he instead said "you are so dead" would people be interpreting that as a death threat? This is just ridiculous.
Well, murder is very clearly defined and identified, so obviously if someone does it they're in trouble; rape, on the other hand...That's always the part I don't understand with our culture and language; no one has ever, ever had a problem with murder being used in any context whatsoever outside of a literal death threat. Despite murder being a completely horrific, monstrous thing, people always easily recognize the context and don't throw fits when someone says they are going to "murder" someone in terms of competition and whatnot.
So we ran into the lady who was onstage for this and I asked her point blank about it (she was having a smoke behind the staples center)
She told us the banter was completely unscripted, she is friends with the producer she played and it was completely unintentional. They didn't realize the controversy until later that day, and she kept saying there was no undertones or anything intentional in what either of them said. She also mentioned that they had issued an apology the next day.
Anyway, food for thought.
Well, murder is very clearly defined and identified, so obviously if someone does it they're in trouble; rape, on the other hand...
I'm a fairly PC guy (meaning: respectful) but that phrase isn't really associated with rape IMO
EDIT: Or maybe I'm wrong. I associate it entirely with a trip to the doctor.
Good point.Murder isn't as clearly defined as you might want to believe. Jack Kevorkian. Pro-life. Plenty of room for debate.
I'm a fairly PC guy (meaning: respectful) but that phrase isn't really associated with rape IMO
EDIT: Or maybe I'm wrong. I associate it entirely with a trip to the doctor.
That's always the part I don't understand with our culture and language; no one has ever, ever had a problem with murder being used in any context whatsoever outside of a literal death threat. Despite murder being a completely horrific, monstrous thing, people always easily recognize the context and don't throw fits when someone says they are going to "murder" someone in terms of competition and whatnot.
Thanks for your high-level contribution to the discussion.was that a rape joke? lol america
I don't think she'd have to be particularly dense. The point is that the expression, while you may not find it offensive, has direct connotations to rape.
That being said, I am surprised we're still talking about this. Yeah, poor choice of words, but at this point that's all.
Go look it up on google right now and come back and tell me if you still think it has no connection with rape.Im highly dissappointed this is even a conversation.
That commonly used joke as no ties with rape. If you are killing someone in bball and you want to talk so friendly smack you could say those exact words.
I cant tell if some people are socially slow or trying to make something out of nothing.
Go look it up on google right now and come back and tell me if you still think it has no connection with rape.
So I looked it up (the exact phrasing used by the producer) on google, and all I found was links back to the manufactured outrage at the story we're all talking about. Oh and one WoW post about letting some purple monster... thing. Would you mind letting us all know what google search you're doing? Because googling what he said is giving me nothing.
Go look it up on google right now and come back and tell me if you still think it has no connection with rape.
It's more about getting through something bad, like the example someone gave of a visit to the doctor or the dentist.
Associating this with rape says more about the person making that association than the guy that said it.
Go look it up on google right now and come back and tell me if you still think it has no connection with rape.
So I looked it up (the exact phrasing used by the producer) on google, and all I found was links back to the manufactured outrage at the story we're all talking about. Oh and one WoW post about some purple monster... thing. Would you mind letting us all know what google search you're doing? Because googling what he said is giving me nothing.
Nobody I've seen thinks they made the joke with intentional connotations to rape, merely that the phrase does in fact have certain connotations to rape.I guess socially slow is the answer. Who uses google to determine what expressions or jokes mean? Im goin off my whole life and how term has been applied.
Also, be aware sayings can take on new meanings.
I know there this a lot of MS hate right now and you guys are getting off to every inkling of bad press for them. But you need to relax, why would MS even think of making a rape joke during a conference.
Nobody I've seen thinks they made the joke with intentional connotations to rape, merely that the phrase does in fact have certain connotations to rape.
Only the OP.
I believe the common opinion amongst those who were slightly put off by the use of the phrase know that it was unintentional.
This isn't a witch-hunt, nobody is looking for the presenter's heads on a spike for using an inappropriate phrase at a press conference.So what's wrong with that. Never can use a clean joke because of its root. PC PC PC
Was this rape joke being blown up as soon as it happened? Or since MS is now considered the evil villain of the games industry? I'm just curious if the narrative swings one way over the other.
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Come on man.
There's a ton of shit you can't equate to that.. it's context... there was nothing relating to rape in what happened in that video.
This isn't a witch-hunt, nobody is looking for the presenter's heads on a spike for using an inappropriate phrase at a press conference.
It's more just about bringing awareness to the phrase. That's why this thread is so long.
And 5 thumbs up
I find it cute that you think this has anything to do with Microsoft. Or even gaming.
This thread would have had a better discourse in Off-Topic.
It wasn't a rape joke.Honestly, it's mainly people saying it's NOT a rape joke.. and a few people trying to convince everyone else that it IS a rape joke.
That's just the thing.. if most people don't see it as one.. then it probably isn't.
What is the point of creating awareness to something that nobody thinks is there? Think about that. There's better ways to use that energy than this.
I find it cute that you think this has anything to do with Microsoft. Or even gaming.Are we seriously going to pick at every little thing in order to extract something that just isn't there, because we get a free ticket on the "beat on Microsoft" bandwagon? Man come on this is a new low for us.
This isn't a witch-hunt, nobody is looking for the presenter's heads on a spike for using an inappropriate phrase at a press conference.
It's more just about bringing awareness to the phrase. That's why this thread is so long.
It wasn't a rape joke.
It is, however, a phrase with connotations to rape that should be avoided in public situations like that press conference in the future.
Why? This is a manufactured controversy then.
Keep in mind, it is a choice to be offended. You have a choice in that matter, being offended is a personal choice one makes. I really wish people used that energy on something else.. because easily offended people are some of the worst people to be around.
Are we seriously going to pick at every little thing in order to extract something that just isn't there, because we get a free ticket on the "beat on Microsoft" bandwagon? Man come on this is a new low for us.
I'm not offended, I'm merely choosing to understand why those who were could have been.
Probably because they are looking to be offended by something.. honestly.
I can't think of any other reason to really make a big deal out of the whole thing.
not wanting to hear PROBABLY UNINTENTIONAL rape jokes during a video games conference?
Or people could attempt to understand why others are offended and use that experience to better themselves as human beings
Probably because they are looking to be offended by something.. honestly.
I can't think of any other reason to really make a big deal out of the whole thing.
Why? This is a manufactured controversy then.
Keep in mind, it is a choice to be offended. You have a choice in that matter, being offended is a personal choice one makes. I really wish people used that energy on something else.. because easily offended people are some of the worst people to be around.
I..could you for one moment just consider that this isn't because some people don't like the new xbox and instead it could maybe be about not wanting to hear PROBABLY UNINTENTIONAL rape jokes during a video games conference?
It's possible to care about this more than which video game box we like better.
Or people could attempt to understand why others are offended and use that experience to better themselves as human beings