Do you need her to help out with expenses?
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The Black Culture Thread |OT11| In This Salon, Everyone Gets A Perm
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Face it Tiger..
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do you want to be her sponsor? really, talk to her about it.
otherwise, tell her exit stage left.
She dose not
After all is said and done at the end of the month we have between 150 and 250 dollars
Let me remind you that I knew this 5 years ago. But blew it off as people not liking to work
It depends. How's the rest of the relationship? What's she like overall?
Because from the little you've told us, it's not that she doesn't want to work that's the problem, it's that ol' girl doesn't seem to have any drive.
There's a difference between not wanting to work and not being able to hold down a J.O.B....
But hey, doesn't seem like you've had a problem with that all this time. If you can afford to take care of her and are willing to, then go ahead and wife her.
...you're crazy.
I like it because of how hilariously blatant it is. No faster way then that to know that someone is completely full of shit.
I don't know her so I can't say anything definitively but if it's this much of an issue then, at the very least, you have to sit her down and talk about how she has to help. Also, if she still refuses to work and you still want to marry her, then she better be housewife of the year every single year.
To be honest, I'd be on my way out the door based on what you've told us.
Reality of the situation in this day and age is that unless you're making significantly (significantly) above average income, you can't support a family unless your SO is also working. You gotta pay for doctors appointments, school, extracurriculars, college, etc. if you're planning to have kids.
Face it Tiger..
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Massive Duck. C.M.
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The inability to hold down a job is a big alarm.
I mean I only really gave you a snippet of our relationship. And it really is the only thing that feels wrong IMO. And I agree Cdy. But she feels like making 30k a year is enough to where she can stay at home.
Is not that she can't hold a job she starts one gets bored and never goes back.
The Faceless Master
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if i was making 100k i'd be fine with it, but any less than that and she better be doing SOMETHING
Massive Duck. C.M.
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That's pretty bad too...
But ultimately you've been together this long and your relationship must be decent. Sounds like it might get rougher financially later on at this pace though
It all depends...but if I had a woman that's not doing anything productive, not trying to do some sort of side gig and just sit around the house....yeah I would chuck the peace sign.
chertipros
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I advise you to back out now
Young Magus
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Nakazato........
Like I can understand if ol'girl was a full time student but sounds like thats not the case.
In that case you best bounce....
Like I can understand if ol'girl was a full time student but sounds like thats not the case.
In that case you best bounce....
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NipplesAndToes23
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I saw Tomorrowland today. That shit was good, my only complaint was that it used a cliche that I'm tired of. I've seen it so many times that I wonder if studio heads make sure it's implemented in these type of movies because they feel it creates an emotional response that equates to profit. I can't see how a writer who comes to the thought of putting that in and not quickly think of just how often it shows up in the video medium and would immediately switch that shit up.
andthebeatgoeson
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Need more info. Any college degree? Any signs of any ambition? How does she survive day to day? You?
That would get tiring unless you can support her. But most adults accept they need a job. Someone that can't keep a job sounds like a potential nightmare. Not just financially but what will her day be filled up with?
I would say naw but I don't know how you lasted this long. What does she do on these multiple weeks off while you work?
Prototype Viktor
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That dam auto tag never works on opera mobile
Master Milk
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are you guys gonna have kids? does she mind being a housewife?
Young Magus
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Disrespect to the max :0
Current situation about student privacy
http://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2015/05/which-students-get-to-have-privacy/
http://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2015/05/which-students-get-to-have-privacy/
Jackben
bitch I'm taking calls.
Damn. That kid will never live this down.
Face it Tiger..
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'MERICA be like: " FIFA, a package came in the mail today."
FIFA: "What package?" '
MERICA: "DEEZ CUFFS, GOT EEM!"
FIFA: "What package?" '
MERICA: "DEEZ CUFFS, GOT EEM!"
dis good.
Banana Aeon
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I'd have alarm bells ringing in my head but I'm sure you have more relationship experience than I do and you know her better than anybody else. I can imagine fiances getting real tight in the future, especially if you ever want to have a family though.
Because you wanted to brag
n00bsauce87
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She did that with FIFA? She became an international hero. How about that
Black Republican
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you always need a hardass black woman to clean shit up honestly
Kid Kamikaze10
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One can dream right?
Seriously though, go Loretta!
Mass Effect DLC where Loretta hits the Reapers with that injunction.
I can hear it.
Black Republican
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Loretta every time some Company tries to defend their bullshit:
Kid Kamikaze10
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And what ROH just did to TNA!
Seriously, FIFA and TNA on the same day. Two different levels, two massive train-wrecks!
what is going on with TNA
Man shut up.
whoa, why you goin in fam?
Black Republican
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BET awards exactly a month from now, whos gonna make the thread that day?
Honestly, that aj styles pic got me.
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