She thinks carefully before she speaks which can be a godsend but it can also be exquisitely frustrating if I'm waiting hours for her to finish a sentence.
She doesn't necessarily want me to solve her problems, just to listen to them. I'm 'solution-focused' or some similar business-speak shit so that doesn't mesh well with me.
She doesn't even take a passing interest in some things that I'm passionate about. I really enjoy her perspective on everything so if I'm balls-deep in The Wire, it's her I want to discuss it with more than anyone else. I can see how that goes both ways between us though. I'm just being arrogant suggesting the things I care about should somehow matter 'more'. Maybe that's me being a dick, rather than her.
She can't appreciate the musical genius that was Don Van Vliet.
She's an attractive, intelligent & funny woman and yet she insists on choosing a belligerent drunken fascist for a boyfriend. I guess I benefit from that one though.
All things considered, I sure do love my lady.
She doesn't necessarily want me to solve her problems, just to listen to them. I'm 'solution-focused' or some similar business-speak shit so that doesn't mesh well with me.
She doesn't even take a passing interest in some things that I'm passionate about. I really enjoy her perspective on everything so if I'm balls-deep in The Wire, it's her I want to discuss it with more than anyone else. I can see how that goes both ways between us though. I'm just being arrogant suggesting the things I care about should somehow matter 'more'. Maybe that's me being a dick, rather than her.
She can't appreciate the musical genius that was Don Van Vliet.
She's an attractive, intelligent & funny woman and yet she insists on choosing a belligerent drunken fascist for a boyfriend. I guess I benefit from that one though.
All things considered, I sure do love my lady.