TickleMeElbow
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Yeah a lot of people will put up with all kinds of shit if they feel like the "reward" is good enough.
Sex? [Speech 70]
Coffee? [Speech 30]
I had a friend in high school who had similar issues as me (anxiety, depression, possibly crazy) that had model good looks. He still had problems with women, but they definitely approached him more than me.
He was a cool guy.
Bro, as someone who is bi, I'm fucking glad I don't have to deal with the gay dating scene since I'm romantically attracted to women. There's a whole 'nother level of bullshit you have to put up with. But yeah, getting sex is eaaasy.
Oh also,
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Fucking. Amazing.
Would you describe yourself as a "nice guy"?
The whole post is a gold mine.
Be interesting in those two minutes and you'll be granted more time. Be wack, and well, you get what's been happening to you.
Eta- rejection is an inevitability. Just gotta work around it.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm the casual misogyny and generalisations in this thread 10/10 would barf again
The Call Me Maybe music video has over 930 million views on YouTube. How do these girls not recognize the guy??
I have no idea who this guy is or what that video is.
So you're saying because lots of women can be slutty for a hot guy that was an asshole to them, that means all women forgive creepiness if the guy is attractive enough? Fuck outta here with those generalizations. This kinda shit is why I'm reluctant to do what I want and have NSA sex with guys as I please, because they might be like "man this bitch was just ready to go, women are fucking whores"
jealousy is as natural an emotion as any tbh
Gosh, unlike those other sluts using a hookup app to hookup, this classy respectable lady prefers coffee before being fucked in the butt
It's best not to be consumed by it, or use it as a way to put down people.
I get jealous a lot; sometimes I do it in a harmful way, and other times it motivates to be a better person.
This doesn't apply to just women btw
Gosh, unlike those other sluts using a hookup app to hookup, this classy respectable lady prefers coffee before being fucked in the butt
Sounds awkward, coffee always gives me the runs
Insecure meninist are the only ones who think it's just women.
It's not that bad, and it's way more convenient, IMO. Some people might have trouble with it, but people has trouble with the scene in 2001, too. There are always going to be people with hang-up and anxiety about the dating scene, no matter what form it takes.I'm so glad I found my eventual wife way back in the relatively unterrifying dating era of 2001.
It has been bizarre observing the evolution of online dating rituals in the period since. I find it all utterly intimidating and brutal.
Pretty confident that if my marriage ever falls over I will happily consign myself to a life of solitude rather than dip my toe in these terrifying waters.
jealousy is as natural an emotion as any tbh
No. This is wrong and you should be ashamed of yourself for perpetuating this lie.
Again this is a dating/hookup app. Of course an attractive person will find more success even with poor "tactics" than an unattractive one. This has nothing to do with harassment.
What sucks about Tinder for me is that ik I'm in the attractive zone but race is a factor for a good amount of people here. Definitely moving to a coastline when I get the chance cause I'm attracted to all races and the people here majority don't see things the same as
I'm so glad I found my eventual wife way back in the relatively unterrifying dating era of 2001.
It has been bizarre observing the evolution of online dating rituals in the period since. I find it all utterly intimidating and brutal.
Pretty confident that if my marriage ever falls over I will happily consign myself to a life of solitude rather than dip my toe in these terrifying waters.
I'm in the Midwest and race isn't much of a factor. If you are attractive and have your life together, getting women is like shooting fish in a barrel because there is almost no competition from other men of your race.
I hear you. I'm pretty much the same height and it really bothers me because it's something I have no control over (unlike say, being overweight), it's a result of genetic makeup (my parents are tiny), and it's basically the "great filter" when it comes to dating. That "my face when his height starts with 5" tweet comes to mind.You should ask 'how short?' lol. I'm 164cm (~5'4"), so in the realm of not just short but VERY short. I've learned to live with its implications though, I know things like online dating and clubs/bars do not work in my favour so when I'm not in a crippling depression caused partially by that fact I try other things (just meeting people the 'normal' way, meetUp, etc.)
Also, be white.It's not that bad, and it's way more convenient, IMO. Some people might have trouble with it, but people has trouble with the scene in 2001, too. There are always going to be people with hang-up and anxiety about the dating scene, no matter what form it takes.
That was the same in 2001, too. If anything, one of the most important things the Internet has done is help provide a platform for disadvantaged groups and help connect them in ways that used to be more inconvenient or effectively impossible. A lot of early specialized dating websites helped cut through that bias by catering specifically to minority groups that were otherwise overlooked and under-served. That doesn't change the racial bias on Tinder or other popular apps today, but I believe it's easier and more convenient for minorities today than it was in 2001, too.Also, be white.
Sex? [Speech 70]
Coffee? [Speech 30]
I have 91 matches on tinder. Not super sure race is a factor. I mean obviously it is. But it doesn't seem as harsh on Tuesday as on other dating apps/sites. >_>I would like to think being African hasn't had an effect on Tinder, but being that I have yet to actually meet up with anyone using the app that I actually was attracted too, that must mean either I'm bad at bios, or girls aren't into guys whose names they can't pronounce ¯\_(ツ_/¯
I'm tall (6"5) but I've suffered from major self confidence issues since I was young. I've had people say I'm handsome before, but never managed to even ask anyone out before. My lack of confidence makes it impossible for me to even try, I shoot myself in the foot before I even make the first step.
It sucks. I know I'm certainly not good looking, but I wouldn't say I'm terrible looking either. Growing a beard has helped.
One day my confidence will get better I guess if I just act it.