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A.J. Delgado: Nicki Minaj Is Worse for Young Girls' Morals Than Madonna Ever Was

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benjipwns

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http://www.nationalreview.com/node/386246/print

During last night’s MTV Video Music Awards, Nicki Minaj performed her much-hyped new single, “Anaconda.” The catchy beat and its incorporation of Sir Mix A Lot’s “Baby Got Back” classic is, admittedly, incredibly fun. Subsequently, I watched the video online (in just a few days, it already has nearly 70,000,000 views).

Well, gents might need a cigarette after watching the video. It consists of Minaj nearly naked, in a variety of sets, and a variety of positions, most of whom consist of her wearing a thong and/or gyrating her behind (the twerking trend is still strong, it seems). You might wonder if you’re watching a Hustler shoot or a video meant for mainstream audiences, particularly youths. Its conclusion is Minaj performing a provocative lap dance on rapper Drake.

But it’s the lyrics that are most concerning, advocating what is essentially prostitution and drug use.

A sampling:

Boy toy named Troy, used to live in Detroit
Big dope dealer money, he was getting some coin
Was in shoot-outs with the law, but he lived in a palace
Bought me Alexander McQueen, he was keeping my stylish . . .
I’m high as hell, I only took a half of pill . . .
Come through and f*** him in my automobile . . .
Now that bang bang bang
I let him hit it cause he slang cocaine
He toss my salad like his name is Romaine
And when we done I make him buy me Balmain

To recap: Sleep with a guy because he’s a rich drug dealer! Men, in return for sex, will buy you Alexander McQueen and Balmain clothing. Also allow a man to sleep with you because he sells cocaine, and sample the drugs yourself.

Lovely. How is this even sexy, rather than sad, desperate, and repulsive?

A drug that makes users have cotton-mouth breath, talk endlessly and foolishly, and rush to the bathroom to empty their bowels . . . is indeed the definition of sexy. Minaj seems to have a thing for praising men who sell cocaine, per the lyrics of her earlier hit, “Super Bass,” in which she raps:

And he ill, he real, he might get a deal
He pop bottles and he got the right kind of bill
He cold, he dope, he might sell coke
He always in the air, but he never fly coach

Due to the constant radio play Minaj’s tracks receive, and her penchant for a colorful, cotton-candy-inspired fashion style (similar to fellow popstar Katy Perry), little girls are huge fans of the immigrant rapper from Queens.

Last year, The Atlantic’s Conor Friedersdorf wrote about how two little British girls, age 8, huge fans of Minaj, appeared on The Ellen Show to perform one of Minaj’s hits, “Super Bass.” And yes, they even sang the line about the guy selling coke. Applause!

At this point, some may say: “But parents need to watch what their kids listen to.” It’s a meritless retort, for several reasons.


First, it assumes only little children are potentially negatively affected by the lyrics. The truth is, teenage women and women in their earlier twenties are even more affected by Minaj’s lyrics boasting about prostitution (essentially), drug use, and overall immorality. Unlike the little girls, they understand every word of the lyrics, absorb them, and possibly emulate them. Moreover, while I may not be a parent, I know it’s nearly impossible to shelter children from negative musical influences and sexual videos. These are the lyrics with which your daughter or sister (in any level of school, or in college, or as a young working woman) is being surrounded.

Admittedly, in the 80s, little girls and young women may have seen Madonna writhe around on a stage to “Like a Virgin.” But (a) the most one saw of Madonna’s body was a bit of cleavage; (b) it was controversial while today that would not even raise an eyebrow; (c) although provocative, the lyrics were hardly explicit (huge difference between singing about a virgin-like experience versus glamorizing sleeping with a man for drugs; and (d) Madonna was the sole exception — nowadays bragging about trading sex for nice clothes and drugs is the rule, not the exception.

This openly sexual, anything-goes mentality may have taken off several years ago, with Katy Perry’s “I Kissed a Girl,” in which the non-bisexual Perry nonetheless suggested to girls that experimenting with bisexuality is sexy and playful. (The truth is, bisexual acts when one isn’t naturally disposed are a dangerous opponent to morality and female empowerment, as it is often done purely to please a male onlooker or due to the influence of drugs and alcohol.)

The music industry quickly continued the trend. Beyonce, who once profited off her good-girl image, buried that persona last year under half-naked magazine covers, oddly explicit lyrics, and even a reference to drug use (one track’s title: “Blow”). None of this, of course, has stopped the hypocritical starlet from calling herself a feminist, including at last night’s VMAs, when some couldn’t help but point out the disconnect. Miley Cyrus has pulled one stunt after another, including chewing a female concertgoer’s panties on stage and singing about a potentially deadly hallucinogenic drug (“molly”). The Dominican Republic even banned Miley Cyrus’s tour on morality grounds. Who can blame them?

While I share Minaj’s love for a good bass beat, and there ain’t nothin’ wrong with praising big booties, why the need to promote materialism, drug use, crime, and, well, whorishness?

The music industry is laughing all the way to the bank while teaching women to devalue themselves — at what point will we say it is going too far?

Some of Ms. Delgado's greatest hits:
http://www.nationalreview.com/node/378310/print
Crying Rape
Is there really a rape epidemic? Probably not.
http://www.nationalreview.com/node/379131/print
My recent article “Crying Rape: Is there really a rape epidemic? Probably not” generated a vicious reaction from left-leaning media and activists. In addition to being remarkably broad and at times dishonest, the tactics indicated that significant segments of the Left are not content to shout back at conservatives. They want to shout us down, to limit the honest discussion allowed regarding sexual violence.

Left wing shouting down example:
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_facto...pe_a_j_delgado_engages_in_victim_blaming.html
 

Grizzo

Member
I hate Anaconda and think it's an awful song which just doesn't seem to go anywhere but I fail to see the difference between this and Lil Kim's How Many Licks?, released 13 years ago.

Even the verses have the same theme to them (both are talking about specific guys in each of them). So I guess what I'm trying to say is that it doesn't really bother me.

Although I didn't think the music video would be such a big hit on YouTube.
 

Coolwhip

Banned
Trash like this is worse for everyone. It's straight up porn with a woman that has rebuild her body from scratch. What can go wrong?!
 

Casimir

Unconfirmed Member
Baby got back is a better song than Anaconda.

ShinobiFist already posted the relevant Khia video.
 

WorldStar

Banned
It's straight up porn with a woman that has rebuild her body from scratch.

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Acorn

Member
In 20 years the cycle will repeat. X popstar will be much worse than *insert provocative pop star from my generation*.

Back in my dayism is one of the most tiring things.
 

FiveEyes

Banned
Elvis Presley's gyrating hips, Janet Jackson's nipple, Eminem's controversial raps, and Miley Cyrus' wrecking ball music video all say hi.

Come to think of it, Nora from Henrik Ibsen's A Doll's House in 1879 says hi.
 

Ratrat

Member
In 20 years the cycle will repeat. X popstar will be much worse than *insert provocative pop star from my generation*.

Back in my dayism is one of the most tiring things.
There isnt much further to go without getting censored so i dont know about that.
 

LuchaShaq

Banned
Yeah I'm sure college aged upper middle class white girls are going to start hanging out in the hood to find hot cocaine dealers.

Gimme a fucking break.
 

Kaban

Member
Don't know who AJ Delgado is, but there is something about the song that rubs me the wrong way... not so much the sex/drugs, but this part right here:

"Fuck the skinny bitches, fuck the skinny bitches in the club
I wanna see all the big fat ass bitches in the motherfucking club
Fuck you if you skinny bitches WHAT?"

I mean, alright, it's a song about big asses. But what really bothers me is she just directly insults people based on their appearance, or in this case, if they're skinny. THAT'S the part I'm most worried about affecting younger audiences.
 
Has this lady ever actually listened to the lyrics of Birthday Cake? I mean, like really listened.

Come to think of it, isn't Queen Perry dating an actual drug dealer right now?
 

Deadly Cyclone

Pride of Iowa State
Makes me happy I dont have a daughter.

And in having a son I'm glad he's found no interest in the rap/pop culture.

Sounds like a boring kid.

Being glad he hasn't gotten into rap because of Nicki is really stupid.

If your daughter is dumb enough to see the Nicki Minaj video and want to start twerking in the school cafeteria half naked then there was a big problem way before Minaj got involved.

Basically this.
 

gdt

Member
If your daughter is dumb enough to see the Nicki Minaj video and want to start twerking in the school cafeteria half naked then there was a big problem way before Minaj got involved.
 

NYR

Member
Never really understood the fascination with her ass. It is fake. Fake. FAKE. FAAAAKE! This is undeniable, I really don't know how anyone can say otherwise, just look it up.

niki_minaj_plastic-surgery-before-and-after-photos.jpg
 

Coolwhip

Banned
Sounds like a boring kid.

Being glad he hasn't gotten into rap because of Nicki is really stupid.



Basically this.

Such bad replies dude. Someone is boring if he doesn't like terrible music? And you really think a teenager is dumb if they are easily influenced?

,,, yikes.
 

Effnine

Member
So long as you teach your kids right from day one, then these type of cultural phenomenons don't make a bit of difference ...

Watched the video and thought it was pretty cringe worthy though -- the lyrics, the video ... it was just garbage and I actually like some of her songs ...
 

Acorn

Member
Never really understood the fascination with her ass. It is fake. Fake. FAKE. FAAAAKE! This is undeniable, I really don't know how anyone can say otherwise, just look it up.
Some people like fake titties. I assume it's the same for asses.
 

Grizzo

Member
Don't know who AJ Delgado is, but there is something about the song that rubs me the wrong way... not so much the sex/drugs, but this part right here:

"Fuck the skinny bitches, fuck the skinny bitches in the club
I wanna see all the big fat ass bitches in the motherfucking club
Fuck you if you skinny bitches WHAT?"

I mean, alright, it's a song about big asses. But what really bothers me is she just directly insults people based on their appearance, or in this case, if they're skinny. THAT'S the part I'm most worried about affecting younger audiences.

Ugh I forgot about this part (cuz I usually don't listen to that trashy song until the end). Yeah, that's the most offending part. Especially coming from a woman who has a fake booty.
 

FiveEyes

Banned
Watched the video and thought it was pretty cringe worthy though -- the lyrics, the video ... it was just garbage and I actually like some of her songs ...

It's so hit and miss with pop stars because it comes down to who writes the song/hook. "Super Bass" is a fantastic song.
 

way more

Member
While I share Minaj’s love for a good bass beat, and there ain’t nothin’ wrong with praising big booties, why the need to promote materialism, drug use, crime, and, well, whorishness?

I always love when these appeals to being 'with it' appear in hysterical cries for censorship.
 

aly

Member
I don't think you can shield your kids from everything. You will just have to teach them the right way and then they won't have to look up to Nicki. I think the video and lyrics are gross, but she's a grown woman selling product and your kids shouldn't be watching it anyway.
 

hateradio

The Most Dangerous Yes Man
It's a pretty graphic song, but it's not unlike movies or shows on TV. The only difference is that she's the lead. If she wants to play a kept woman, I don't see why she can't.

However, I guess after people digest all that is inside of a three-minute song, they realize that the message is shallow and dangerous.

Sounds like she should do a remix "Anaconda (Don't do it)."
 

MIMIC

Banned
The truth is, teenage women and women in their earlier twenties are even more affected by Minaj’s lyrics boasting about prostitution (essentially), drug use, and overall immorality. Unlike the little girls, they understand every word of the lyrics, absorb them, and possibly emulate them.

I guess. But it has been that way since forever. Additionally, I don't think entertainers have an obligation to take those kinds of things into consideration. It's just....entertainment. It's not like she (or any other entertainer) is encouraging people to do this in real life.

Also, the parent (or your common sense) has to be in the equation SOMEWHERE
 

Monocle

Member
All the little girls I know get their morals by analyzing Nicki Minaj's lyrics for life advice. You can't imagine how grateful their parents are. Raising kids is easier than ever thanks to Nicki Minaj!
 
Sounds like a boring kid.

Being glad he hasn't gotten into rap because of Nicki is really stupid.



Basically this.

Nope, he's plays bass guitar. Enjoys most rock and...god awful Dubstep lol.

And I'm sorry to say but if any of you have kids, pre-teens to be exact, this over sexual behavior is pretty common in middle/lower middle class from what Ive seen.

I see 13 year old boys with Wiz Kalifa shirts smoking a blunt. Booty shorts on girls.
I monitor my sons facebook....its border line kiddy porn cause these girls all wanna do twerk videos and post them.
In the 90's only a select few kids seem to be fucking...I'm pretty sure most 7th and 8th graders are doing more then we ever did.

Easy access to porn like never before...songs that were once metaphor laced are now just direct.
Jodeci and R. Kelly used to twist words..now songs just straight up talk about fucking.

I remember living through 2 Live Crew and hiding the tape between my bed sheets.

Gangster Rap and songs about fucking had a niche place in music, it wasnt the top 40 in your face thing.
Now a song about selling coke or sucking dicks can be played at the same time on 10 stations.

I watched some home town awards the other night, Steve Harvey hosted it or some shit...a high school wins "Best Highschool!"
As they come to the stage what plays in the background..50 cent, "In the club"
Yep two people accepting an award for best highschool and in the background is "Im down for having sex not making love" "Lets crack the bub"
 
I think Minaj is pretty ridiculous and not particularly talented as a rapper or performer, but the article is lol worthy. It also reminds us that every generation has some figure who is blamed for the inevitable downfall of the youth/civilization. Teen pregnancy is down, violence is down, murder is down...yeah.
 

cdyhybrid

Member
We should have our youth listen to good, wholesome rock music.

No references to drug use or sex in that genre, no siree.
 
The article in and of itself is not unreasonable. She doesn't say anything offensive in it. In fact, when my daughter is older and of pop-song age, I'll probably discuss the dangers of these images with her in the way that the author does.

As for Delgado's other work, I'm unfamiliar with it. That "crying rape" thing sounds ridiculous, and I'll read the full article a bit later.
 

Monocle

Member
The over-sexualization of 'western society' is worse for young girls / everyone.
Yeah people would definitely be less interested in sex if Western society stopped reminding us that it exists. If only there were a way to repress people's natural impulses and convince them that sex is shameful...

I think the key is censorship and lack of education. Nobody would want to have sex if they had no idea what an attractive person looks like, and no clue how to go about it safely.
 

gdt

Member
Not really, do you know how the minds of teens work?

Oh noes rap music and rock music and punk music will tear the younger generation apart!

Crime is down (lower than ever) teen pregnancy is down (not enough however), literacy is up, etc etc.

Teens will be ok.

I don't even care for the song, but sitting around writing the same article that has been written since the dawn of time is lame.

There were probably articles like this in the 20's.

Edit: beaten by PD
 

EBCubs03

Banned
this song has inspired me to go out and sell drugs and make a lot of money

hopefully I won't end up like 99% of drug dealers and barely make enough to live on
 
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