You know, he is right.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmCXWbcavBE#t=31
Is that security camera footage ACTUAL footage from the shooting?
You know, he is right.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmCXWbcavBE#t=31
Beyond institutionalizing him against his will, I don't think there's much they can do. A therapist can talk but the patient has to open up. He can get medications but he has to take them. Health care as a whole could be better at helping the less financially capable but in this case, finances weren't an issue. The mental health system itself isn't at fault for the societal stigma about mental health. If people treated therapy for mental wounds as medically valid as going to the doctor for a broken leg, maybe people who have some psychosis wouldn't be afraid to take steps.
I find it kinda gross that so many people are trying to leverage this tragedy to make it some sort of teachable moment about misogyny. My Facebook feed to full of outrageously outraged feminist friends all weekend crying about how this is being covered. It reminds me of the Giffords shooting and how that was supposed to be indicative of the coarseness of our political discourse and was leveraged to try to marginalize political opponents.
There's something uniquely ugly and opportunistic about trying to use the blood of innocents to gain a little power and/or attention for your pet political cause. [/]
Life is tragic and unfair and awful things happen. Most of the time there are no easy answers. There will always be extreme opinions and behavior in society and people saying outlandish things. The Rodgers of the world don't happen because these discussions exist, they happen because some very small amount of the population lack the emotional and mental ability to process them in a rational way.
Let's mourn the victims and pray for their loved ones, be honest with our ourselves about how much of a little shit Rodger was but be just as honest with ourselves that the kid needed a lot of help and attention. These outliers need someone in their lives to help them see they are going down a very very bad path.
It's a sad fact that some people simply can't be helped.
Is that security camera footage ACTUAL footage from the shooting?
I find it kinda gross that so many people are trying to leverage this tragedy to make it some sort of teachable moment about misogyny. My Facebook feed to full of outrageously outraged feminist friends all weekend crying about how this is being covered. It reminds me of the Giffords shooting and how that was supposed to be indicative of the coarseness of our political discourse and was leveraged to try to marginalize political opponents.
There's something uniquely ugly and opportunistic about trying to use the blood of innocents to gain a little power and/or attention for your pet political cause.
Life is tragic and unfair and awful things happen. Most of the time there are no easy answers. There will always be extreme opinions and behavior in society and people saying outlandish things. The Rodgers of the world don't happen because these discussions exist, they happen because some very small amount of the population lack the emotional and mental ability to process them in a rational way.
Let's mourn the victims and pray for their loved ones, be honest with our ourselves about how much of a little shit Rodger was but be just as honest with ourselves that the kid needed a lot of help and attention. These outliers need someone in their lives to help them see they are going down a very very bad path.
This poor guy was a misogynist and received lots of help.
Could the United States mental health system be any better at helping people like this? I'm not really familiar enough with it to try to point out shortcomings. To me, arguing about any of the shooters personal views and experiences doesn't seem that productive since it's likely all a byproduct of being mentally ill. It seems like a theme in these types of shootings yet doesn't seem to get debated that heavily.
This poor guy was a mysogonist and received lots of help.
I find it kinda gross that so many people are trying to leverage this tragedy to make it some sort of teachable moment about misogyny..
You know, he is right.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmCXWbcavBE#t=31
White mass shooter.Mental health is always brought up when there's a white shooter.
Mental health is always brought up when there's a white shooter.
Yeah, I'm not sure what to say.
I can see the attempt at dark comedy, but from 1 minute onward it becomes far too macabre.
I don't think people are denying this, the more interesting discussion is why he turned out the way he did.
Some people seem content to label him a misogynist and move on.
There's nothing opportunistic for pointing our the exact reasons for his killing spree.
If it were a white supremacist who killed a bunch of blacks it would instantly be called a hate crime motivated by race.
But for some reason it's too dangerous to call this a shooting fueled by a man's misogyny.
These PUA sites sound horrible, and I hope these are not considered as some sort of support group. That's not help.Yeah. He really needed to be institutionalised. It's easy to say that now of course.
I think I can say without any sympathy towards this kid's world view and actions, that a society full of misogyny is still pretty relevant to the situation. Because in a more sane world, someone like this kid may have been identified much more quickly. Look at the reaction right here on GAF to people reading his internet postings: it was impossible to tell them apart from parody or typical internet misogyny culture because there's so much of that shit.
Co-opting incidents like this to go on a convenient political crusade? That would be bad. But there's still a conversation to be had when stuff like this happens. If you believe people like this need help, addressing cultural pathologies they can latch onto is one pre-condition to getting them that help. In the same way that stigmatizing mental illness in general is something that needs to stop in order to keep more people from falling through the cracks.
Well..
Agreed.
A first scanning of Fox News and CNN this morning, I found no mentions of the shooter. Is that intentional?
There's also no discussions of MRA or mental illness.
Since he also used a knife to kill 3, a car to kill 1, posted videos about wanting to killing women, and wrote some horseshit about his feelings, I would say mental health is much more of an issue in this particular case.
I'm up to when he's 19 and there's still been no encounter with a counsellor or therapist yet whatsoever.
While I think I may disagree partly with the latter bit of the bolded, as I feel it was more done to spite people for losing such a 'great individual due to the incompassion of humanity', I do agree that there are major areas to make you suspect its validity, the awareness that others would read it, the partial desire to write fantasy, and most importantly:I think there's a lot left out and a lot fabricated. This manifesto was created to cause empathy, and that's exactly what it's getting.
This guy stabs unsuspecting housemates. Guns down innocent women. Rams cyclists with his car. I'm sure he had a good laugh about that. And people want to empathize with this guy? You understand his pain?
And I'm not saying that it doesn't apply to this case. The guy I was replying to said that mental health isn't discussed after mass shootings but that just isn't true when it comes to white shooters.
Would you call it a hate crime motivated by race if the white victims outnumbered the black ones?
Also, if modern West is "toxic and misogynist" then what do you call many other societies. [...] Sure there is plenty of work to be done but your description seems hyperbolic to me.It just seems like it's a deflection tactic to avoid talking about our toxic misogynist culture [...]
Being shattered as a little boy when his parents separated.For example?
Age 22:
Presumably he had therapists shortly before, or after, that as well, if not deemed stable by his parents. Between where you are, and the end, he goes into a little bit more detail about the counselling (and receives even more) he received but there is an implication, in his lamenting of their inefficiency. that he regularly went to some.
Being shattered as a little boy when his parents separated.
MRA is a very very small group of men on the internet, still very much 'under the radar' as it were, so I wouldn't be surprised if it doesn't get mentioned anywhere in the mass media.
Sure, if the person said that they wanted to kill all black people and the whites who are friends with them. I don't know why his crime being motivated by misogyny is so hard to grasp for some people. He clearly stated that he hated women for going with "inferior" guys and he was jealous of men that he thought got all the women he wanted.
So I just finished reading the entire manifesto and a few things stuck out to me:
-His parent's wealth is a bit overstated. He was seemingly well connected more than anything else. The parents could have paid for him to go to something like the Bunny Ranch but he had no interest in prostitution as he felt it was degrading.
-He was a victim of bullying, from his perspective anyway. He was always a crybaby/whiner and seemed to take any slight very personally. Much of this stemmed from his height and physicality.
-He was obsessed with background and was definitely narcissistic. He makes a big emphasis on his background in the manifesto and how due to this, he was better than some random Mexican or Black.
-On that note, he was definitely racist. He felt other races were beneath him.
-He was jealous of everyone seemingly as he felt everybody was better than him. He interestingly enough had an insecurity complex along with the narcissism.
-He didn't get along with his stepmother at all. He felt that she was too controlling and manipulating his father.
-As for his mother, he seemingly despised her for not marrying into a wealthy family. He stated multiple times that she should sacrifice herself for his happiness and remarry(the parents got divorced) into money.
-He doesn't talk much about his sister other than her banging some guy and him being jealous of that.
-He was planning on killing his stepmother and half-brother because he didn't want his half-brother to have a better life than him
-Was a big World of Warcraft and Halo fanatic. I'm sure this will become a big talking point down the road.
-If things didn't go his way, he would throw a tantrum about it and try to force other people to resolve the situation instead of him doing it himself.
-People were recommending for him to move out of Isla Vista but he felt that it would be a failure on his part and if he couldn't be happy there, nobody should.
-His parents knew that he was offkilter and did try but he seemingly resented them for any intervention on their part.
He had a lot of mental issues other than just misogyny.
These PUA sites sound horrible, and I hope these are not considered as some sort of support group. That's not help.
It seems that too often those who empathize and ask for relationship help don't want to hear proactive advice. They don't want a kick in the pants, they want a hug. So they go find like-minded people where they can cry and complain together. This is not help. This is not a support group. It's just a hate site.
When these sites are breeding hate and turning people into dangerous psychopaths, that's seriously messed up. It's time for people to be held accountable for what they say on the internet, and it's time for society to find the dangerous people and give them real help.
MRA, misogyny, and mental illness are the MO of this guy, so it stands to reason that these issues would get press.
If tabloids can get away with labeling him the "virgin killer" (which is a really stupid name) than why not talk about MRA?
From what I've seen on GAF and those other forum boards, it doesn't feel like a small group of men.
Has anybody blamed fedoras or video games yet?
Is there a site you're talking about in particular, because I've read some of that pua/inner game, get out of your comfort zone stuff. Was just Dale Carnegie type junk with some male bravado thrown in. And this guy kind of sounds like the opposite of them.
Has anybody blamed fedoras or video games yet?
Jesus Christ...
Where are you getting the MRA stuff? His anti-feminist diatribes?
Seven people are dead because society has decided that shy and awkward men like Elliot Rodger do not deserve a girlfriend and that there is absolutely no way to improve his loneliness and loserdom through learning game or any other social behavior.
FFS no one deserves sex or a relationship just for existing. It's other aspects of society that have more blame for this than him not getting a girl. Also the way the article claims they possibly could have fixed him was gross.
More people will die unless you give men sexual options.
Until you give men like Rodger a way to have sex, either by encouraging them to learn game, seek out a Thai wife, or engage in legalized prostitutionthree things that the American media and cultural elite venomously attack, its inevitable for another massacre to occur. Even game itself, as useful as it is on an individual level, is a band-aid fix upon a culture which has stopped rewarding nice guys while encouraging female whoring to benefit only the top 10% of alpha males, all in the name of societal progress.
I think there's a lot left out and a lot fabricated. This manifesto was created to cause empathy, and that's exactly what it's getting.
This guy stabs unsuspecting housemates. Guns down innocent women. Rams cyclists with his car. I'm sure he had a good laugh about that. And people want to empathize with this guy? You understand his pain?
You clearly didn't read the manifesto. Guy sounds absolutely crazy in it and not a sympathetic character at all.
Jesus Christ...
Regarding his misogyny (and racism
Yes, they are crucial, but I don't think they can be considered even close to a primary (or even secondary) cause of these events. Without the misogyny and racism, he would probably still ended up killing people.
Disregard the paper. That's the Daily News stirring up shit to sell papers.
They're generally a rag in NY journalism.
They're the closest you'll get to yellow journalism.
From the manifesto, and from the online footprint he has.
He was a part of BB forums, PUA Hate, and another PUA site I can't recall the name of right now.
He had some posts on these sites and started a few threads before the regulars called him out on his shit and made fun of him.
They thought he was a troll.