And I think you are missing the point here. DeepEnigma might want to listen up too. This isn't some oppression olympics. This isn't some comment against the US like your post seems to think (CDPR isn't even a US developer). Its about recognizing privilege. I
When you're telling someone to check their privilege in this context you're saying "hey you're not a transgender person and you don't have to deal with their struggles so you're not in a position to tell them what they should or shouldn't be offended by. You don't speak for them, and you don't have to deal with the shit they deal with for being transgender." That's what it means. You are privileged. It doesn't make you a bad person, but it also means you can't really relate to this issue.
So lets break this down.
- CDPR made a bad taste joke
- CDPR is criticized for the tweet
- CDPR takes the tweet down and apologizes
- people are upset that CDPR apologized
again if you weren't offended by the joke fine. but if you're mad that other people are offended by it then you should check your privilege. I understand why hearing that might be frustrating because it basically disqualifies you from being upset about this, but as it turns out it really doesn't matter if you're upset about this. CDPR obviously agreed that the tweet was in bad taste because they deleted it and apologized. I can't see why it is so important to you that CDPR keep the tweet up and not apologize, but they did and that's that. get over it.
Hey Peter,
Sorry for the late reply. Wanted to answer properly:
You say it's about "recognising privilege" but I'd wager that this has been an abysmal tactic that has actually done a lot of harm. White Privilege was a slogan - A form of communicating a point. That point has not really gotten around because;
a) privilege has nothing to do with being white.
b) white privilege deduces all white people to a single monolith which is abhorrent given the ethnic sub group that belongs under the umbrella of white that are routinely discriminated against all over the west. I'm talking specifically about minorities like Romas, Jews and Slavs who there are millions off. To speak of white privilege is to lump these in on an even keel and to dismiss their suffrage.
White privilege comes from a place of ignorance, of not knowing about intersectorial tribalism in different cultures. To understand privilege is to understand that there is not much difference between different groups in America is elsewhere. Minorities in Japan, China, Russia, India, Latin America and other places are also mistreated into a hierachy that is based on power and inequality.
I'm not arguing against a concept of privilege, but pointing that out- in a form that does nothing to get the point of across seems like a selfish ego power trip rather than having a desire to actually make people embrace their compassionate side.
You have tons of people here who describe themselves as liberal - partially liberally minded, who cannot get behind this over simplication, and grotesque deductionary summary of people.
Making people aware of their privilege as a means to make them change their mind isn't helpful. It's not helpful to tell African Americans to embrace their privilege because they are 1000% better off than minorities in other countries. Even if that is true, the suffering of others doesn't make your own problem go away, and the truth of the matter is that the American white middle class is in freefall.
For many, their lives suck and as a result they tend to go conservative (as vast majority populations around the world tends to do in times of recessions and economic hardships).
To your other point, to have experience to something doesn't make one an expert of something. Just because you've not experienced something yourself it doesn't mean you cannot have insight or compassion about something. I find it a strange idea that to understand the suffering of others I have to have lived through their suffering myself.
That doesn't make sense. And what is more is that, sometimes being directly involved or exposed to something can make you irrational or biased against something to the point were you cannot see the forest from the trees.
It's not always like that, but don't mistake experience for wisdom or expertise. Many people gain experience, but don't learn from it, or simply co-op the oppression they faced and put it on others. We've seen many tribal societies where a shift in the power dynamics turned the oppressed into the oppressors.
Be wary of empathy. It's not a good barometer to always view politics through. It is insanely biased, one sided, loaded with anxiety and can be weaponised towards extremism.
I understand why hearing that might be frustrating because it basically disqualifies you from being upset about this, but as it turns out it really doesn't matter if you're upset about this.
I am not upset, I merely replied to your arguments which I don't think come from a good point of discussion. I don't think you can or should tell others what they can be upset about simply due to their colour of their skin or their experiences.
You don't need first hand experiences of things to have a valid opinion about something serious. And I'd wager that sometimes being an outside observer brings a more objective, nuanced and calm look to a problem, where as someone who are in the middle of something can be distressed, biased and irrational through the strong emotions they feel.