Thank you both for at least addressing the actual question.
nib95, regarding the occupation. First of all, it is not the source of all of this mess as you have said yourself.
Second of all, what happens in this thread repeatedly is that Israel is being treated as a single monolithic entity with no respect towards actual history. Three elected Israeli governments actively endorsed and offered to end the occupation. Israel gave Sinai back which is twice as large as the entire country, and withdrew from Gaza. People here would endorse any sort of conspiracy theory to reject the fact that Israel at several points wished to end the occupation and was serious about peace. It is honestly insulting to the people in Israel who believe in the two state solution. The occupation has lasted for 47 years but this is just not only Israel's fault I'm afraid, it is also the fault of the Palestinians and Arabs in general failing to convey that they will want to coexist with Israel in any form.
Thirdly, depicting Israel as some menacing empire is just misleading. At the end of the day the country is TINY. The entire country is 22000 squared km including the West Bank, the size of Wales and less than Crimea which has been recently taken by Russia. Israel fits in Saudi Arabia a hundred times. It is not some sprawling dark empire, and the settlements, although stupid and misguided sit on around 2% of the West Bank only (this is the Palestinian estimate for the built-up area of the settlements, look it up). I'm bringing this up not to downplay the suffering of Palestinians that is very real, but to say that this sort of demonization creates a distorted image of reality.
Israel is stronger than its neighbors militarily but it has no strategic depth. The modern Egyptian Army has a reasonable chance of mounting a successful attack on Israel if you consider its size and its naval advantage, being able to completely level the main Israeli population centers. If it weren't for its nuclear weapons it would likely have been taken over by Arab states if they just kept at it. This is just fact.
Israel's military strength does fuck all to help it against non-state actors. If it uses its full abilities it is condemned as disproportionate and portrayed as the villain. If it doesn't, if it would choose to send its troops deep into Gaza to go door to door, tunnel to tunnel to face Hamas fighters it would lose scores of troops only for Hamas and the world mocking it for losing to 'resistance fighters'.
Another thing: downplaying the role of antisemitism in this conflict is just wrong. Not all criticism of Israel is antisemitism, but a decent chunk of it ABSOLUTELY IS and it is important to acknowledge and reject that. Antisemitism is RAMPANT in the Middle East, denying this is irresponsible and hypocritical. (For the guy who said rising antisemitism was an Israeli 'talking point', read this
http://www.newsweek.com/2014/08/08/exodus-why-europes-jews-are-feeling-once-again-261854.html . Also, fuck off for calling every opinion you don't agree with a talking point).
Lastly, this specific conflict should be understood as what it is: one more theater of a war raging across the Middle East, from Libya to Iraq. This is more about Egypt and Saudi Arabia vs. Turkey and Qatar than either Palestinians or Israelis.
The only silver-lining I see to this truly depressing war is that it might help with two things:
1. Demonstrate to the Israeli government and public that the status quo with the Palestinians is unsustainable and that it is within the country's interest to be proactive and take initiative to achieve a peaceful solution rather than being dragged again and again into useless conflicts that benefit no one.
2. Forge a new axis in the Middle East comprised of Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Jordan, Israel and the Palestinian Authority. This was the first time in the history of the conflict where an Arab state openly sided with the Israeli position. If Israel extends its hand to the PA in the West Bank it can forge a meaningful relationship with these countries. It's an opportunity that should not be missed.
There are some encouraging signs regarding both of these, however it is too early to tell.