Wait, like what? Seems like he was pretty cool to everyone.
A couple things from a website that sums it up:
He let Michael fall into a Koi pond because he was bitter Michael was tagging along. He wouldnt fist bump Toby. He wouldnt call Andy Drew. Hed rather watch the Phillies game than take his girlfriend Karen out on a date. Just because you hate your life doesnt mean you get to take it out on everyone else, buster. And Dwight? Poor, poor Dwight, youve been victim to Jims bullying since I can remember.
Also, lets remind our viewers that he stole the Nard Dogs phone, threw it in the ceiling and taunted his victim by calling it incessantly. Because why? Because he didnt like his ring tone.
Who cares if the Nard Dog spent hours making it (one of his favorite hobbies is singing) AND Jim knew Andy doesnt liked to be picked on (remember his reaction to the Jell-O prank?). Jims going to fuck with you anyway. Andy ended up in anger management, but does Jim feel bad about it? No. Because Jims a huge dick.
He ditched his girlfriend in New York to go ask out another woman. A girlfriend who, you know, was DEPENDING ON THE GUY FOR A RIDE BACK TO SCRANTON. You just fucking left her? In NYC? Without telling her, and no alternate form of transportation? DO I EVEN HAVE TO EXPLAIN THE DICKISHNESS OF THIS MANUEVER?
Imagine re-telling that story to a friend:
Person: So what did you do?
Dick: I went back to Scranton.
Person: What about Karen?
Dick: I left her there.
Person: Are you
are you serious?
Dick: Yeah man, I just got in the car and left. Wanna Jagerbomb?
Its indefensible, which means you cannot defense it. Even if I hated the person I was with, truly genuinely hated everything about them, I STILL wouldnt leave them stranded a state away from their home.
He hit on an engaged woman. Its one thing to fool around with someone who has a boyfriend or a girlfriend thatll happen. Nobody is proud of it, but there are few people who can cast the first stone when it comes to not meddling with some other persons fidelity (or their own for that matter). But once that ring goes on the finger?
Game over.
You cant mess with married menfolk and womenfolk, and a fiance is basically an extension of that. If you are fucking around with married/engaged people, you are making a statement about your own moral compass. They dont call that cheating, they call that an affair. You wanna be part of an affair? Hell no.
Thats like when your parents used to say, Were not mad, were just disappointed. Its a whole new level of shit. Isnt it? Am I wrong here? Did Jim Halpert not kiss an engaged woman? Twice? Did I miss the part where that was kosher? Imagine if Toby made a move on Pam right now. There would be a mob of pitchfork and peanut butter spoon wielding women storming the streets.
Hitting on married/engaged women regardless of how long theyve been engaged is a dick move. Thats why, to borrow a line from Twilight:
About three things I was absolutely positive. First, blah-blah-blah teenage vampire stuff, second blah-blah werewolves etc.
And third, I was unconditionally and irrevocably sure that Jim Halperts a real dick.